I was.I guess I am still married, in name only, he treats me like I am his slave,the only thing we do not share is sex. Which I think that sex (quote unquote) is made for the generation that does not know how to make love. Do any women out here feel the same as I do?
2006-12-08 18:45:51 · 15 answers · asked by Sariee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
plain and simple.....you need to meet a real man.
There are men out there that treat women as equals, respect them and do everything in the world for them. It may be difficult but we do exist. You need to get out of the a deadend deal if thats how you feel....he won't change...he's just one of the majority. I totally evolve my life around my wife and child....do everytthing to make them happy and make there life easy...so get out there and find a good one!! I'm sure you can...
2006-12-09 03:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by faststang71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man here.
He is probably feeling the same way, too. Think back to when there was fire in the marriage. Now do an assessment, what has changed? Let me guess, working more, more bills, more things, more credit cards, more stuff in general, not enough communication, not enough touching, not enough TIME for the two of you to BE with each other.
marriage is not easy all the time, sometimes it requires effort. Make a plan to 'get away'. You don't have to leave home, or spend a lot of money. Remind your self of why you fell in love in the first place.
2006-12-09 03:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by mhp_wizo_93_418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the one allowing him to treat you as a slave, take charge and fix it but do it with out arguing don't say a word just don't do it, he will get the message, and if he loves you he will change. This is from a guy who has never figured out why men do this. I have a great marriage and we don't do sex it called love and its done everywhere, and I love it, so does she. To the other men out there, your whole life will change if you get off your dead as__s and act like a husband and father, and remember always a husband first. Never argue or cause an argument and if you make a mistake "admit it" there is nothing wrong with making a mistake, the wrong comes in when you don't admit it. GET IT...
2006-12-09 03:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre defining ALL men based on what this ONE man is doing to you.
ALL men are not like this. My wife and I read the books For Women Only and For Men Only and found that we misundertsand each other quite often.
As far as him treating you like a slave...well dont allow him to treat you that way. Show him what matters to you and if he is a REAL man, he will respond.
If he is just an infantile boy who never grew up and belives his manhood is defined by his dominance over you then its time for you to move on.
2006-12-09 02:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by cybrrgeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly I miss making love any anI'mal can have sex but making love is special and something that the both of you should enjoy, it does sound like its time for you to move on im not trying to make it sound easy because its not but no woman should be treated like you are, been there done that.
2006-12-09 04:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Beverly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel flexibility is the name of mariage. It is a 2 way street. All men are not alike.
2006-12-09 03:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by KB M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like sex. I mean I think about it all the time. I enjoy it with many woman. So if you want to have a discreet affair email me.
2006-12-09 02:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Hunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are all tarred with the same brush.
They are all selfish, and self obsessed......its always ALL about them them them!!!
Could waffle on for hours but I think you get what Im saying here!
2006-12-09 03:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are pigs..why? because it's acceptable and nobody expects more from them so they get away with it.. kick him to the curb and move on!
2006-12-09 03:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women do make men crazy!!behind every sucessful man is a great woman. behind every f@#$ed up man is a crazy biotch
2006-12-09 09:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋