I have a friend who has been married to her husband for about 5 years. She is 24 and he is only 23. She got pregnant last year and he began having this other woman in his life shortly before she gave birth. He had this girlfriend for 8 months, even while his son was growing. He would bring his girlfriend over to the same apartment complex he lived in and his friends even knew about them. He showed this girlfriend off like it was nothing. The girlfriend allegedly wanted to dump him, but then they abruptly broke up when his wife found out! She then threatened to leave him.
2006-12-08 18:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When they had a huge fight, he got a gun and threatened to kill himself if she left him (he didn't do it). She ended up taking him back. Three weeks have passed since this has happened. I have heard from some local people that my friend's husband claims he has changed but is now stalking his former other-girlfriend at work. Will he ever change? Will he cheat again? Should my friend leave him?
2006-12-08 18:24:05 · update #1
I think it's jacked up, but she doesn't want to leave him because she's "traditional"... she doesn't believe in divorce and she wants to keep family since that's what she's always wanted. I have a big problem with that... I think that's a poor excuse not to leave!
2006-12-08 19:00:46 · update #2
Tell her to take the kid and go to the police. And tell them that he threatened to kill himself with a gun and that she feels unsafe around him now. Divorce him because if he is stalking his x girlfriend then 1 there is something not right in his head 2 he still has feelings for the other woman and if given the chance he will cheat on her.
2006-12-08 18:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that she is in grave danger and if she hangs around with this nut case then she is asking to get blown away. She needs to contact protective services and get herself and her child to safety.
2006-12-09 02:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once again, I guess this is a bad thing when a man does it?
Oh, and did I forget to thank you for wasting my time? Anyone out there got an issue?
2006-12-09 02:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. He sounds like a nut case. I feel sorry for your friend.
2006-12-09 02:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to leave. He has yet to grow up.
2006-12-09 02:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions speak louder than words.
2006-12-09 02:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words for your friend: LEAVE HIM
2006-12-09 02:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to move-on..... this man, i mean this boy is obviously has no moral values.
2006-12-09 02:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is not the right word...
he sounds like a psycho.....he needs help....
2006-12-09 02:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋