Li ke she was my bestfriend i raised her son for the first 4 yrs of his life. she gave that to me and i enjoyed every min of it. then she got pregnaunt again and lost that baby just 2 months shy of his birth i was there when he was born still born i was with her threw it all. then a damn yr later i was there for her once again when she brought a live birth in to the world it was a beautiful baby girl whom now is 11/2 and then my mom passed away and my life was so messed up it was crazy i did not know for alm ost a yr weather or not if i was comming or going. and because i lost my mind this person whom called me her bestfriend for many yrs decided she could not be my bestfriend no more because of her other friends and because i could not deal with my moms death ...,. sorry but it was everything that happened in that 2 yrs that drove me over the edge now i still care about her and my little guy i miss him with all my soul , i have been sick and she wont let me see him ever its ovryr
2006-12-08 18:01:01 · 8 answers · asked by angelblossom1963 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like she wasn't a true best friend at all. She shouldn't pressure you into getting over anything at all. You delt with alot of her issues and now she won't help you out? Just think of it this way, she's an old chapter a book reflecting your life. It wasn't a very good book so now you can throw away the book burn it up and move on to another chapter.
2006-12-08 18:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what to tell you sweetie, but for you to try to talk to her and make her realize that you were going through some hard times with your mother passing and you didnt really know how to cope because you didnt have anyone there for you. Remnd her that when her baby died you were there for her every step of the way and never let her down. Tell her that what you needed to make you sane was someone being there for you. She shouldnt be mad at you because you didnt know how to deal with your moms death(that is just crazy) anyone would go insane losing their mom!!! If she still wants to treat you as if you mean nothing to her no matter how hard you try to show her you want a part of her life, the best thing for you to do is to pray for her and just move on, if she is a great friend she will come around. As for the her lil boy you got attatched to its not your fault that you cant be with him so dont worry i know its hard. Hopefully she will realize and come around. Best wishes to you sweetie, hope everything turns out great for you!!!
2006-12-09 02:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. My friend and his gf next door have 2 little boys who call me Uncle. After he went on AA his entire personality changed and became a total asshole. After 2 years of trying to be his friend still I finally gave up and moved on and realized that I have other friends. Time to give it up and move on and stop wasting your time on these people. I learned the hard way. Their loss.
2006-12-09 02:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....but to be honest she do not sound like a good friend for that a friend at all she used you 2 better herself and allow you to do for her when she NEEDED you 2,to me you sound like a good friend a good person,how a friend should be. it gos to show who are your real friends when you need them the most.she not your friend she turned her back on you,that's not a friend.if she allow you 2 still see her son then do that if that's what you wont just make sure shes not taken your kindness for weakness.you'll know.TRUST
2006-12-09 02:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by when you THOUGHT shit matters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats definitely not a friend sweetie. youre having a hard time and you were there for her so instead of being a real friend and being there for you she ran off. thats definitely no friend at all and you never needed her. i wouldnt even speak to her. youve been there with her so many times and its amazing how someone could treat you like that.
2006-12-09 02:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, start looking for a new friends around. Find those happy go lucky and accept you as you are. Create you own world.
2006-12-09 02:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file 4 custody
2006-12-09 02:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by dauntrel_finn95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i push her back till she is fell to the ground and i said, 'don't ever ever try to do that again!'
2006-12-09 02:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Blackfoxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋