i dont know what i have this feeling right now,i admit im still inluv my husband eventhough he gave me a lot of pain and heartache.sometimes i cant help it to cry especially when when im looking a happy family.My husband betrayed me and cheted me alot of times and now he is living with somebody.he wants to come back with me again but i didnt accept him because everytime im thinking of all the pain he gave to me i feels like he crashing my heart.The LAST TIME i talked to him i said dont call me anymore and dont bother my life and my kids anymore and i told him that i will not push him anymore for the childsupport for our kids,because his not really responsible father for my kids and he also have kids with the other girl,not this new girl.but the mother of his two kids in states they are separated now and have a new one in his life now.i didint know all about this until his mother told me that.i was so stupid i admit it just that i trusted him so much.how can i move on with this?
2006-12-08 17:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont fall for it again.You know in your heart what he will do.You stated that fact right off the bat.It's your turn to be happy! Theres a lot of good men out there looking for the women who is the perfect match for them.You'll never know if you dont give yourself the chance to meet them, if you go back to the same sh*t.Guys always wonder why a women will put up with that kind of crap.When some of the good Ones are right in your face filled with a life time of love to give.Now give some other man your love,leave the basta*d alone!!!! Move on.I know I just recently did!
2006-12-08 17:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hun, you sure have had your share. First of all, forget him and move on. Don't take him back he will cheat again. I know I had one. Married him twice. I'm really ashamed of that part. You deserve much better. The part about the child support, I'd think that over. He needs to support his children. Someone else will come along and treat you the way a wife should be treated. Don't lose hope, ever.
good luck and god bless
2006-12-09 01:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be wise to move on and get your life together without him. Be a good mom to your kids. Oh, and their father should be financially responsible for them - don't let him off the hook on that. If he is willing, he should also be part of their lives.
To move on, get busy doing things - be a good housekeeper, a loving mother, work at a job (??), read books, do puzzles, join a church or be active in one that you belong to, meet people, etc.
Ask us questions and we will try to make more suggestions.
I wish you well!
2006-12-09 01:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by masha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take hgim back for the sake of your children. If he lavish you and your kids with gifts, take it. After all he is your husband rather than have a sexual relationship with another man. Accept it as a fantasy. It helps. Dont look at happy family. Find one who has same problem with yours. In that way, you are relieve even a little while.If you know you are not alone in your problem, you feel fine.
2006-12-09 01:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it hurts but life does go on....go do things with your kids, go out with your friends and have some fun....you are much better off without him...he treats you like a doormat and our better then that. Go out and date someone it will take your mind off of him...have a little fun_
2006-12-09 01:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, admit to yourself that you really made the BIGGEST mistake of yourlife. Second, go to Church and ask forgiveness. 3rd, speak to your Mom or Dad or a best friend. 4th, enjoy life and move on....learn from your mistakes. 5th. think about the legal matter of your problem.
2006-12-09 01:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by FlyingHi007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like you said ...your grammer is not all that good. but you can type a story and get your point across just fine. leave this man behind!
2006-12-09 01:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!
Run Away!
Run Away FAST!!
You deserve better than that!
2006-12-09 01:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by knoxnoggins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋