My wife and I have been separated for one month is it to soon for me to have a date?

Question

weve been married for two years and two months

Answer 1

Nope...ther is nothing like new found freedom get out ther and get ya some

Answer 2

Separation is a big step towards divorce without the high cost and one month is okay if you both are for sure not trying to work things out. If you are leading your wife on and also go on dates then it isnt right . You must choose her , or move on. And when I say move on, I mean dont go on dates , have sex with lots of women, then decide its time to make up with wifey again. Thats not how it works. Also,
if you and your wife think you may not get a divorce and are just on a break, you must atleast let her know you will be going on dates, so she doesnt jump to conclusions that youre "cheating". As long as you both know its over, and really really over, not just "space" or " a break" then go on and go on dates. Make sure you know divorce will come soon too, or that other female will be upset that you never divorced officially. good luck.

Answer 3

If you know for sure and with all of your heart that you definately wont be going back to your wife then the amount of time needed isnt important.
What matters is how you feel. You need to be ready to date, to 'hit' on someone and for someone to 'hit' on you, to have possible heart breaks again... there are many things you need to remember about dating and if you feel you are over your wife and your ready to take the next step then do it!
I would suggest try to work things out with your wife, im sure you have tried but you married her for a reason, its worth giving it a go. Wouldnt it be great if you rekindled what you first had and asked her on a date!
Communication is the key to a succesful relationship, talk to your ex and tell her how your feeling and what you expect from your relationship and get her to do the same, then all it comes down to is figuring out a resolution.
Would it not be worth it to try to save your marriage then to find another?

Answer 4

I'm truely in my heart knowing what you are going through, I have also gone through a situation where I had to decide how am I going to do whatever is meant to be done. I've known Jesus ever since my devorce while I had simmular thoughts you are having know, I've opened myself to Him and wrote on a piece of paper the question I had for Him to help me and realy the moment I closed my eyes and just let Him in knowing He is my saviour, He gave me , clear as day, scripture I never even read or heard of before, my answer was definite and I did as He said according to that scripture- mirracle happened. I've just prayed for you and know that He wil guide you if you let Him. Blessings for you and your wife. The Lord Jesus loves you and are waiting for your response.

Answer 5

PLEASE dont. Its only time. Its not worth it. You found all the reasons to marry this person. Treat this person with the most
respect, even if they dont do the same. You can NOT replace time....its impossible. Time will tell, I promise...people of all sorts
go through life a LOT longer without their spouses for all the right or wrong reasons....you MUST give it time..Just relax like me...I am in my parents basement after 15 years of marriage...but what the hell its 5 o'clock somewhere...so just relax..will ya...

Answer 6

Oh my God. You've only been married for 26 months and you're already separated? Yeah, sure. Go on a date. Have fun.

Answer 7

Have a direct conversation with your wife, then head to court for a seperation agreement or divorce. Then you will be free to do what you need. But never do anything like that unless your covered legally. It could come back to haunt you later.

Answer 8

If it were me, I know it would be too soon. It usually takes more than thirty days to go through all the emotional stages of a seperation. You don't want to become involved in a rebound relationship and you don't want to start dating or having casual sex just to take your mind off of the pain of the seperation or fill the void, it will not be benficial to you or the other person involved. Take time to grieve and process everything. When it comes down to it, the only person that can really answer that question is you. You will know when you are ready.

Answer 9

I am separated. My papers are being filled out now. I was told by an attorney that as long as there is no sex, only "friends" going out to a movie or dinner, then it is fine. If there is sex, then your wife COULD possibly counter sue with adultery charges.

Answer 10

I don't know where you've been but allot of men separated from their wives started dating other women before they got separated ,,,, If you are contemplating doing it then it shouldn't make any difference when you start ,,,, Some guys would consider that you've wasted that month ,,,, Better get busy and catch up ,,,,,

Answer 11

Uh, yes....isn't this separation a time to ponder your marriage and the state it's in ? I don't know how you can accomplish that by hooking up with some stranger. I mean at least wait until your divorced before you start messing up again...;)