I am a fem lesbian. I have never used a strap and never wanted to use one until recently. I'm only into fems. I don't find men or stud/butches attractive. (Nothing against them, they're just not my cup of tea.) Anyway, lately I have been having fantasies about another femme strapping on and doing me, and vise versa with me strapping on and doing her. I don't desire sex with men, or studs with straps at all,it would have to be another fem.Another thing is the girl I just started talking to is a fem, but she said she doesn't use straps. But I guess that's a whole different question. sex without a strap is great,but I would like to try it,I guess.Are any other fems (preferably those that date fems) like me?
2006-12-08 17:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all, you can't trick anyone into answering anything online. Secondly, I asked this question in the Gay and Lesbian. People should learn to read.
2006-12-08 18:08:50 · update #1
I am guy but hear me out.
Your still a female whether you like guys or don't. From a medical stand point your body is only asking for what it wants. It doesn't mean you want a guy but it does mean you want the equipment to fullfill perfectly natural urges. I can imagine you climax very well you partner and thats good . But there are only some many buttons you can push without penetration. You are denying multiple regions of your body that can be only dealt with internally.
2006-12-08 19:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by FIRE § 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I'm African American also. And I don't date men or stud girls. Only Fems because I'm a Fem. I never had sex with a girl with the strap. I mean how am I supposed to do it without the strap? And I know what you mean, I say go for it. Find a Girl that loves the strap or has used one before. See How you feel after you've done it. Do you feel glad about it? Or do you feel just the same as were before?
Hey If you want to, You and I could be friends. You know talk on the IM and send Email and things.
Hope you have fun!!!
2006-12-09 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, I'm totally not a femme lesbian, but I'm going to answer anyway ...
I've always been the 'wearer' of the strap on, but I really enjoyed letting my last GF wear it as well ... And she was a total femme. I think part of it has to do with our physical makeup as we can orgasm through both external and internal means ... Being penetrated has a totally different feel (physical and emotional) than just clitoral stimulation. It feels to me like a way of making yourself vulnerable ... In a good way.
Hopefully, this wasn't too confusing. I mean, I think every lesbian deals with the penetration question. Just because you're turned on by it, doesn't make you any less of a lesbian, nor does it mean you like men. As I've always said, it's not the penis I hate -- it's the dick that's attached to it =)
2006-12-09 02:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by jillians_apologist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to date a girl who only wanted it that way with another femme...
She was attracted to all sorts of girls (good thing for me.. :) but anyway there was something about the juxtaposing of the femme girl taking control that turned her on.
on a side note I also know a couple of strait MEN who want to be diddled by a femme girl with a strap on, but I do not profess to understand their reasonings although one says the same thing about the juxtaposition. The other is, I suspect, a closet case who just needs an excuse to enjoy certain proclivities...
Anyway, I think there are plenty of girls who are probably into taking control in that sort of way, both femme and otherwise so I imagine finding someone who would be amenable would not be too difficult.
2006-12-09 01:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of lesbians like using the strap on. Just because they like the way it feels to have something inside them, doesn't mean that they like men. And just because the strap on has a fake penis, doesn't mean they like guys, either. If they didn't make the strap on look like a penis, what would they make it look like?
I've heard of fem lesbians in your same situation.
2006-12-09 01:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Manx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'm fem and I would love to try it. Unfortunately, I have no girl right now, and no one to try it with. :(
2006-12-09 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your partner and experiment. Who knows? You might enjoy making love that way.
2006-12-09 14:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just go ahead and do it if you want.
2006-12-09 01:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what feels good
2006-12-09 01:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by David B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah...you tricked me to...*****
2006-12-09 01:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by alyaknatasha2006 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋