I am pro-life and I had a question for you? If I have sex with someone that I know that will probably get an abortion if she comes pregnant, am I accessory to murder of my and her child.? I want to have sex with this girl and will use the proper protection, but its not 100% effective; If I know that she will have an abortion if she becomes pregnant because I choose to have sex with her, would I contribute to my son/daughters murder. Someone that is in to the bible hardcore, said I would because I could have prevented it by not having sex with her? He says god may even see it worst for me just because I know abortion is dead wrong. Of course, I would never want her to get an abortion. If she had an abortion because I couldn't control my hormones, would the sin also be in my hands, or would I be free and clear. What do you think? Would my hands be clean, or would I be an accessory to murder?
2006-12-08 16:49:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
What is so intriguing about this girl that makes you want to have sex with her so badly? In any other case I would say no, you wouldnt be an "accessory to murder", but because you know for a fact that if she became pregnant that she would commit a murder, and you're still willing to give her the chance, then you are an accessory to murder. I am guessing that the two of you are not married since she would have an abortion and no logical reason to why is stated... On that note, you are so worried about God seeing you as a bad person if you "allow this girl to abort your child"... why are you NOT worried that God will notice you having sexual intercourse out of wedlock? Think about the bigger picture. I would say... just don't have sex with the girl!
2006-12-08 16:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of confused. If you're pro-life and know that nothing is 100% safe then why are you having sex? Shouldn't you wait until you've found someone you're going to marry.
Your hardcore bible friend should be telling you to abstain from sexual intercourse until you're married so then you wouldn't have to worry about getting this woman pregnant and her having an abortion.
Save yourself the worry and practice abstinence!
2006-12-09 01:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by silvrcraze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am prolife as well. Except in extreme situations, or to save mothers life ect....in my opinion, there are many girls out there, and if this is that much of a concern for you, i would say you already know the answer. You arent comfortable with her choice if she was to get pregnant, and spending time worrying she might become pregnant isnt worth one night is it? If it bothers you so much, look to someone else. A lovely girl who you could get to know, date, maybe even marry and have children with. Good luck!
2006-12-09 01:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are that worried about it, then you already know the answer.
Personally, I feel that if you know going into it that if she gets pregnant she'll kill her baby, and you choose to sleep with her anyway, then you are pretty much saying that you are okay with her making that decision.
I would avoid the whole situation by not sleeping with her. Wait until you find someone whose belief system is more like yours and you are in a real loving relationship.
2006-12-09 01:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer is don't have sex with this girl. Frankly, if you're questioning anything regarding a sexual relationship, you shouldn't be having on in the first place.
2006-12-09 02:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by McNulty25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had already annswered your questions:) you are PRO-LIFE, best thing to do is if she is really not the girl that u might be marrying in the future , best to not have sex with her, so u will not be having all these problems, its the cold season , so maybe take cold showers, in order for you to KEEP your disturbed conscience in peace, my prayers are for u. God bless
2006-12-09 00:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by mylesr77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t have sex with her..You two are obviously on different wave links..If your so worried about how God would see it , you`d better stop and think how he will see it with ya`ll having sex out of wedlock!!!
2006-12-09 01:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are pro life & she is not I would tell you to avoide her, your morals & ethics probly differ in many other ways as well. It is ultimatly up to her, but if you believe it is a sin & see pregnancy as a possibilty then you are contributing to the sin in a sence!
2006-12-09 00:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a religious person but i grew up catholic. fornication before marriage is a sin. using protection is a sin. sex is for procreation.
so have sex and live in sin. we were givin free will and can pray for forgiveness and be forgiven in return. but of course they don't teach you that in catechism.
2006-12-09 01:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by LaRae L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a baby. DON"T HAVE SEX! If it means that much to you...just don't do it. Problem solved.
2006-12-09 01:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋