I am from india studyin in u.s for the past 6 years. I never tried to ask myself if there is certain behaviour u have to follow to talk to girls on the dance floors. Is it just me being unaware of the behaviour or does it matter that i am foriegn? Does anybody have any info. Thanks
2006-12-08 16:41:29 · 14 answers · asked by chaman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
too loud to talk, just dance and possibly a couple of drinks.
chin
2006-12-08 16:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last, and usually alone too.
You have very little confidence, and it comes across. Women can spot it a mile away, and shun guys like you've been experiencing.
Provided you don't have a third eye in the middle of your forehead or really bad breath or something else funky, you probably just need to be less needy. Go out to have fun first, and the chicks will flock to you as an exotic foreigner.
You sound really desperate, even here. Best of luck.
2006-12-09 00:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what you might be doing, but get a buddy to talk to you about what a geek is. Sometimes Asians come across as a bit geeky, and I don't mean that badly, but it's just the difference in cultures. I don't think it is because you are foreign, that is generally respected and liked.
2006-12-09 00:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you did not say how you approach them. If you talk to them normally like human beinigs and not objects then you will be ok. IT may hurt you that you are forign that may throw some girls off but dont worry there are some girls who dont care you just have to talk normally to them and ask do you care to dance or just do want to dance and have conversation with them offer to buy them a drink. JUST BE YOURSELF AND CONFIDENT. TRY YOUR BEST TO SPEAK ENGLISH WELL. you wrote it well so im sure you speak it well. thats pretty much it DONT STARE AT THEM EIHER THAT FREAKS US OUT. just talk to them like you would your friends. just like human beings not objects.
well i am a female.
maybe wait to talk to them off the dance floor.
maybe going to a speed date thing would help you find woman easier.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-09 00:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, most guys have trouble talking to girls on dance floors. Try talking to them elsewhere.
2006-12-09 00:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Pseudo Obscure 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Womenlike when you are you. If you have an accent it might be harder for them to understand you. you need to find a lady who is diverse and cultured so you are takin' seriously. Meeting women at aclub is not good place to be taken seriousely.
2006-12-09 00:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by bobbo704542003 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-09 00:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak to them in chineese, that will turn them on! I mean, who donst like a hot chinese who dosnt speak english!
2006-12-09 00:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by * ♥ * ♥ W ♥ * ♥ * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress your best put your best foot forward and dance the girls will catch on
2006-12-09 00:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Probably both. Have you thought of going to a party with someone you knew?
2006-12-09 00:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Shalltell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋