We had this conversation and he's always aking me about my ex boyfriend cause he knows that I really love that guy... He's asking me 'what if my ex boyfriend wants me back, am I gonna leave him'.... I admit it,,, I still love my ex boyfriend but what should be the best answer??
2006-12-08 16:38:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't believe he is jealous, he is insecure. It sounds as if he is concerned that if he gets attached to you and your ex wants you back that he is going to be left hurting.
The truth is always the best answer. If this could happen, be honest with him and don't be upset if he decides not to take a chance on you.
2006-12-08 16:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jewelhunter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that you should be honest. If you would really leave him and still really love your ex, then maybe you shouldn't be in the current relationship with the new guy. He probably is fishing for the information because he's sincerely worried about how you feel.
2006-12-08 16:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Erica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There must be a reason you left this guy in the first place. you can love someone and this person is no good for you. if this is the case stay away no matter how much you love him. Getting into a new relationship with baggage is called a rebound and eventually this relationship will break up.
2006-12-08 16:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still love him, admit it. This other guy obviously likes you and is fishing for your true feelings towards your ex. its up to you how much you want him to know depending on if you like this new guy or not.
2006-12-08 16:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u still love ur ex boyfriend leave this guy and get back with ur ex or hold on in relations intill ur over ur ex
2006-12-08 16:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you have loved someone it doesn't go away over night and stays with you for a life time.
Tell you boyfriend that you are with him now and that's what really matters, your are his present and his future and whats past is past, no point dwelling on what ifs
2006-12-08 16:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best answer is the truth! if you care about this guy you will be unfront with him..I don't think hes going to be mad, I think he will understand and either way you shouldn't hide information like that be honest that way you can always say you were up front with your feelings..and that way he knows where you stand.
2006-12-08 16:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u cant be with the one u love hunny love the one ure with
2006-12-08 17:11:01 · answer #8 · answered by dogma12155 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋