my husband doesent satisfy me i tryed mastibation but i dont have orgasyms wats wrong with me?
2006-12-08 16:25:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, why are you doing the masterbating? No rule says he can't do that for you so you can relax and enjoy it more. Also, don't let sex be a quickie. Lots of foreplay for both of you and he should not get to until you do. Sorry fellas... but really! We don't need 5 second wonders.
How do you feel during sex? Are you happy to be with him? Do you feel horny? I know that's a weird question, but if your hormone levels aren't right you might not feel horny, or able to respond.
I wonder about women who are very thin and dieting all the time too. You need some fat in your diet in order to have a healthy libido and orgasm.
I hope you resolve this issue soon.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 16:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually even WITH a toy, sometimes it's difficult to have an orgasm. What you need to do is realize that your husband isn't judging you in any way during sex and you need to concentrate on your own needs. Sometimes I have difficulty having an orgasm cause I'm worried about making my fiance feel good. Try more foreplay, and spend more time touching and kissing and preparing you before sex. I'm sure your husband would be happy to help. Sometimes guys just get overeager and don't realize women need a little more time.
2006-12-08 16:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you just havent figured out how to masturbate in a way that's pleasureable--for everybody it's something different. Keep having fun and experimenting because your husband will never satisfy you until you have satisfied yourself.
2006-12-08 16:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Meems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a toy. Clitoral stimulation, with a vibrator. A woman who can get herself off is more able to get off with a partner. Guide your husband through what YOU want, and tell him what feels good...
Sex without communication is pointless in a marriage. If you're not compatible in bed, because you're not willing to teach him your body, then you're not compatible as a couple (because you're not willing to teach him your mind).
2006-12-08 16:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by Brian B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some body in your life that can show you and make you feel like a women then you well have a orgasyms some body that know how to make love to a women.
2006-12-09 01:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by little_bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing will be to go see a doctor about it , and talk to hubby to ..
2006-12-08 16:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋