My mom hates when i talk to boyz. i even dont wanna break my friendship. I hate that gf/bf relation . i only have friendship. what shall i do now??
2006-12-08 16:08:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ruh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, let's agree that the moms are like that - protective and caring. But the way they express it, might be sometimes a little too much. In any case, they are almost surprisingly RIGHT. So, listen to her very carefully and try to understand her. She is experienced and she has 'seen' the world.
As far as your own contentions are concerned, I believe you and even if it is a bit strange that you hate bf-gf relationship, you shall have to make your mother realise that you are not in to any hanky panky sort of relationship. I do not mean that a 'friendship' or a genuine 'bf-gf' relationship are two different things but you shall have to analyse your own 'friendship' in terms of the acceptable social norms and if you are in anyways breaking the 'rules', your mother has the reasons to be worried.
I hope you understand...
2006-12-08 16:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you have just become a teen, then talking to boys is perfectly natural. But maybe your mother underestimates your maturity and wants you to pay more attention to your studies. Give her some time. Maybe in a few months, she may accept these friendships.
2006-12-08 22:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having friendship with opposite sex is normal. Your Mom may be fearing that you will get involved with a boy whom she does not approve. All mothers fear this. Dont talk about boys in her presence. If you are not on taking terms with boys you will find it difficult to feel comfortable in social gatherings and also at work place.
2006-12-08 16:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CLEAR. OPPOSIT SEX, MAY BE PLANTS, ANIMALS OR HUMAN BEINGS
HAVE ONLY ONE RELATION, AND MUST HAVE THAT RELATION ..............
(OTHER RELATIONS ...MOTHER...SISTER...BROTHER...FATHER... FRIEND...ETC ARE MAN MADE BUT TO BE STRICTLY FOLLOWED TO RETAIN BALANCED SCIENTIFIC DISCIPLINARY APPROACH TO LIFE & SMOOTH AND HEALTHY SYSTEM TO FLOURISH THE MANKIND.)
............. THAT ONLY RELATION IS " REPRODUCTOION'. IT IS NOT BAD. THERE IS NO SIN. ON THE OTHER HAND A GREAT RESPONSIBILITY GIVEN BY NATURE/GOD WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT IS EXPERIENCE BASED RIGHT TIME, RIGHT CHOICE, RIGHT PERSON, RIGHT PLACE.......
THERE ARE REASONS WHY YOUR MOM HATES THE BOYS. AND YOU ARE AWARE OF THE REASON AND FEAR VERY WELL TOO.
DONT BREAK THE RELATIONS. AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. CLEARLY INFORM YOUR MOM ABOUT YOUR INTENTION. IN CO-ED ATMOSHPHERE IT IS A CURIOUS ANXIETY AND SOCIAL REQUIREMENT PLUS A TEST OF SELF CONTROL FOR TEEN GIRLS STEPPING TO BE MATURED.
DONT DISOBEY YOUR MOTHER-THE ONLY WELLWISHER IN THE WORLD. BUT PLEASE DONT CHEAT HER OTHERWISE IT WILL BE YOU WHO IS GOING TO BE CHEATED LASTLY.
GREAT BUDHA HAS SOLVED THE PROBLEM THROUGH.....MIDDLE PATH ... "MADHYAM MARG" THE NAME GIVEN BY HIM.
2006-12-08 17:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Just clear your mom's confusion. She might be afraid of you that you may spoil your carrer. And yourself know your limit with your friends. Eventhough friendship has no limit, we have to consider your mom also.
2006-12-08 16:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur Mom everything , She will understand u .
2006-12-08 22:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try explaining to ur mum hat its pure friendship n ur mom wil understand u but ur mom might be correct as she has crossed our age n knows wat s gud n wat s not....so dnt be so much close to guys so u need not break friendship as well as wnt hurt ur mom
2006-12-08 17:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by madhu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋