i don't know how it will effect the kids
2006-12-08 16:06:40 · 26 answers · asked by whitethunderrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What took you so long?
2006-12-08 16:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If what you say is true, you never married him. When the official asked - Do you take this women to be your wife?- you said I do.
You made a vow to a women not to a man. You should have no problem getting an anullment. Your children won't respect you if you are not honest with yourself and the morals you may have attempted to instill in them. You have to be true to what you really believe.
How could this be hidden from you for 14 years? If you've suspeceted it (which I find hard to believe you did'nt) you've probably already rationalized it. Why do you want to change now? That answer will tell you whether or not you should divorce your partner. If this query has arisen because of new grasps on the Bible , your next move is clear. If not , you've got to ask yourself why now.
2006-12-09 00:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding, right?
You mean that she was a man or that she NOW wants to be a man?
If she was a man for 14 years and u didn't notice then where is the problem if she has the reproductive organs of a woman and it's the same person you have been with for 14 years now, she had kids so she is a woman even if she was a man a long time ago.
Now if she wants to be a man, that's another story...and ya it could get to the kids but there are therapists for this kind of stuff, i think
GUYS- she could have been born hermaphrodite that means with both female and male sexes...usually when a child is born like that the parents and doctor wait till the child is old enough to chose which sex he wants to keep and they surgically remove or "take care" of the other sex. This is real, trust me.
2006-12-09 00:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait, in your other question, you said you are 16 and now you have a wife of 14 years. so you must have gotten married when you were 2 and your 'he wife' gave birth to your children when you were 4 or so. how could you have known the differences between men and women when you were two years old? now we forgive you for your innocence of just figuring this out after 14 years of marriage. you must have had fun as a gay couple and your wife must have had so much pain giving birth as a man. So go get a divorce and life will get more beautiful!
2006-12-09 00:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol FIRST off if your wife was born a man there is no way in HELL that he could have given birth. Secondly how did you have a relationship with someone for 14 years and be totally blinded by the fact that this person was not female? Are you stupid?! If your wondering should you get divorced {based on my first two sentences I'm sure you can figure out I do not believe you} but if your not GAY then umm....YES YOU SHOULD its not even a legally binding marriage!
2006-12-09 00:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a ******* life. Shes a he, she/he can't have kids, unless it went from she to he. But still can't have kids. Which must make you gay because you have been taking it up the as@ for the last 14 yrs.
2006-12-09 00:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids?
2006-12-09 00:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is not a solution.14 years is a long span in life so better rectify her now.
2006-12-09 00:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by mayflowercoolday 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if your wife was a man then he would not have been able to give birth to children. So this question is moot.
2006-12-09 00:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about helping you get a divorce but could you tell me what you were smoking and where I can get it?
2006-12-09 00:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Stanbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that ovary-fallopian tube-uterus-cervix-vagina implant thingie worked for him. how nice.
how'd you find out? his nut sack dipped into the toilet water and he let out a yelp?
dude you've been polishing his knob and taking it up the tailpipe for 14 years, not "grinding down a persistent genital wart" as he likes to call it.
2006-12-09 02:28:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋