Hello.I have a big problem with my friends.What they have been doing for a while is talking in secret.I dont feel comfortable.They are always telling secrets in front of everyone and excluding me.I have herad complains from other freinds that they do not feel akward with them because they are always telling secrets between them.They do no tell me anymore what is going on in theri lives.An when I ask them they either dont tell me or the used a very mean tone to asnwer me.So one morning i decided not to speak to them.If they were not treating me as a friend what difference would it make if i didnt speak to them.So,one of them noticed that i was acting strange and she asked me what was going on.I told and explained to her what was i feeling about what they were doing.I colud tell she was listening but she wasnt the same listener as before.An whenever i said hi to her in the hallway she said hi back but with a cold smile.Help please If anyone what to help or lisyen more write me back.
2006-12-08 15:58:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know it will be hard...but you should find somebody new to hang out with. This same thing happened to me...kind of. I have a group of friends and two of them always told each other stuff...and never told me and they'd bring it up and laugh and I would feel excluded. I started talking to more people and introducing myself to new friends. It feels good to have more than just a few friends and once I talked to them about it, it has stopped more. It is still done, but because I have more friends, I know I can just leave and hang out with other people and they started to notice and began to stop. It will take time, but eventually you will get over it and they will stop being immature. Good luck!
2006-12-08 16:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by **** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they are being rude or that you are over sensitive.
You might need some new friends.
2006-12-09 00:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋