i dont know.
i havent liked a guy for along time...im not even sure if i even liked a guy.there were few guys who liked me but the problem is i never liked them back.i like my friends more...i feel weird...im not interested in guys at all..
2006-12-08 15:32:04 · 25 answers · asked by Nina Lista 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i might be attracted to girls...but i havent said anything to my friends beacuse i might lose them.
2006-12-08 15:41:49 · update #1
Well, are you physically attracted to woman? If not then no you are not. You might just not be interested in any guys right now
2006-12-08 15:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make you a lesbian. Are you attrackted to girls? Have a sexual or physical attraction to women? Would you rather be intimate with a woman over a man?
I dont know your age but many girls dont get involved with guys early on. Many girls feel awkward during their teen years and shy away from guys for this reason. There is nothing wrong with wanting to hang out with your friends instead. A lot of girls have a sub concious fear of males, for several different reasons. Maybe you are just more comfortable around your friends at the moment. The day will come eventually when you are either attrackted to a boy or a girl and that will give you the answer.
You could be bisexual if you have an interest in men and women, A-sexual if you have no interest in any sex, or gay if you are attracketed to the same sex. Only you can answer who you are more attrackted to.
2006-12-08 15:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by teddybear700655 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make up your mind so quickly. If you are lesbian, fine, but don't be so final with your sexuality when you may just be at a temporary standstill in terms of a relationship. It could be that this between-boyfriends period is just that, that there is some other guy waiting for you right around the corner. So you can't say yes, or no, to your question. Either way, just take each day as it comes, as a surprise and a gift from God, that may include your meeting Mr. or Ms Right. Most surprises are usually good ones, and may not be evident at the time. So kick back, don't worry about it; good things will happen, and enjoy your holidays. Good luck!
2006-12-08 15:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by steviewag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that makes me wonder, and it is a big thing, is that there is no emphasis in your question that your are attracted to girls. You only say you might be.
You do say you like your friends--so you like female company. I think a lot of girls, hetero and lesbian prefer female companionship--but that does not mean that is necessarily their sexual orientation.
It is also signifigant, that despite the myths of men-hating lesbians, the women who seem to have the most dislike for men are actually often heterosexual women.
It is possilble that you simply do not have all that much of a sex drive or at this point in your life you are not all that interested in a romantic or sexual relationship.
My advise is just go with your feelings. If you enjoy hanging with your friends do it. If you start having romantic or sexual feelings about other girls--then you very well may be a lesbian. My advice--don't push it either direction--just be open and see.
2006-12-08 21:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't mentioned how you feel about women, or the thought of being with a woman. You may be a lesbian if you aren't interested in men, or it could be you just don't have a interest in either sex right now. Either way is fine...we are all different, just take your time and things will work out. Good luck!!
If you ever need someone to chat with, feel free to email or IM me.
2006-12-08 15:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for your age not to like guys at this point. maybe you just like them as a friend, but not in a romantic way. that doesn't make you a lesbian. But if you are attracted to women at you keep on thinking about them, then i think you might be a lesbian. But just take it easy, it doesn't mean that you would really not like guys in the long run. it might just be a face in you life.
2006-12-08 15:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well it could just be that you havent found a guy you're interessted in. could be from a number of different reasons and maybe you just trust your friends more than you could ever see yourself trusting a guy, or maybe you jsut want to date a guy who you're good friends with? you could be a lesbian if you actually think about girls in that way, that doesn't mean just your friends pretty much other people you dont know that well that you're attracted to. also depends on how old you are and what your history and experiences are. i think if you are gay or straight you'll know it.
2006-12-08 15:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt mean your a lesbian. what makes you a lesbian is that you are attracted to a girl (not only physiclay) and are willing to be in a RELATIONSHIP with another female. just because you havnt liked a guy in a while doesnt mean you are gay. you may hav not found a guy worth liking. after a while if you meet a girl you like and would want to DATE not just fu*k or fling with then you might consider lookin into seeing if in your heart your a lesbian. till then just stick it out and youll find someone to like
2006-12-08 15:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a lesbian unless you are attracted to girls. You probably just aren't interested in sex right now, which is totally normal. Everyone varies in their amount of interest in sex throughout their lives. Enjoy your friends and worry about the rest later!
2006-12-08 15:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats because the right guy has not come along. Don't get in a hurry, ask god to send you the right man.No, you are not a lesbian. That lifestyle is a choice.An abomination in Gods eyes!
2006-12-08 15:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋