This really stinks. I lost my 2 best friends over a stupid fight. it's simple (well not really lol) i told them i felt left out when i hung out with them like it seemed they would exclude me > they got mad at me > we "resolved" it > they started doing it again > i talked to them bout it > they got mad and said that i "shouldnt give them that crap again" > we "resolved" it > i ignored them one day cuz i was fed up with their dumb ways and getting mad just cuz i told them how i felt > they said that ignoring them was soo "rude" but i just didnt wanna explode with anger on them > they decided to take a "break" from me and decide if they were mad or not > I sent them a 500 word apology email that was really deep > (continued at bottom)
2006-12-08 15:31:52 · 18 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
They said that "sorry doesnt cut it and doesn't solve things that fast ...there aren't a, b , c and d choices everywhere and life isnt that easy always" > said that they didn't knwo em anymore cuz i "changed" so much > decided to not be my friend and after that im'ed me on 3 different sn's first one they blocked me after saying ive changed and crap then 2nd one they said "blocking you!" and blocked me then 3rd one said "ohh sorry forgot to say bye!" then blocked me again
i truly believe that i dont need them because they didnt forgive me for something that was like so small even though i apologized so much and i didnt barely do anything..so wtf? are they worth it? i mean i know they're not true friends but it'll be so awkward now because they're (or were) my best friends and its gonna be weird...what now?!!!??
2006-12-08 15:36:29 · update #1
hey if you have friends that treat you badly then it needs to be resolved. basically to me, it seems like they are treating you like crap and you keep forgiving them. but when you do one thing wrong they freak. dont let them walk all over you hunny. nobody should be treated like that. you should tell them that too. and if they dont like that then maybe its time you might want to look into new people with better personailties. but i guess im not sure how old you are so it that could be a factor in making new friends. if your younger sometimes its harder because everyone has their "set groups" but if your older it can be a lot easier to stray off and take your own path and see what comes.
...oh jeeze i just read the rest of your question. and i say HELL NO...drop those bitches. that it really really mean hunny! wow. dont even try anymore. hopefully after you stop talking to them and start ignoring them like nothings wrong than they will realize what mean people that they were
2006-12-08 15:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of matters I forgive and put out of your mind on, however so long as individuals are chosing moeny over thier nation, I can't and can certainly not forgive them. I didn't spend eight years of my lifestyles on a boat, combating so that you can degrade the United States.
2016-09-03 09:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive them, but move on. You don't need those kinds of friends. Pain is inevitable, misery is optional.
Make new friends, because those "friends" are not worth it. They count on you coming back to them all the time, so they can hurt you again and again. By returning to them each time, you are giving them permission to hurt you again and again.
Don't bother writing an explanation, just forget them.
2006-12-08 20:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just go back to school with your confidence, if that means bringing a book or headphones instead of hanging with them, then so be it. You'll be respected by others if you respect yourself first. Don't let yourself be treated liek crap. Although I did only hear one side so it's hard to follow.
2006-12-08 20:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by hollister girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very short. If you die today or tomorrow..maybe next year..will the fight matter? Take ten minutes to write down five goals and decide what really matters in your life. Focus. Your life needs to be your priority. Good luck.
2006-12-08 16:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by sugardaddysgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may hurt. But this may be a blessing in disguise. Real friends will get into spats, but not stay mad. I would not dwell on them. Make new friends and move on to greener pastures.
2006-12-08 15:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you always should forgive people because being holding a grudge doesn't do anything to the other person, it's just more stress for you!
2006-12-08 15:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth did you give your power away to those bitches by apologizing for something that THEY did to you, an innocent, neglected little soul? drop them. now. threes a crowd.
ps. forgive but dont forget.
2006-12-08 21:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done all you can do. This is not one sided, you too can decide if you want to be part of their group. If they are treating you badly find new friends.
2006-12-08 15:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - the only person hurt when you refuse to forgive is yourself. Let it go, and don't let resentment eat at you. Just forgive.
2006-12-08 15:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋