I work with this girl who is my assistant at work. We have become very good friends and are around eachother alot because we work together. We are out to lunch alone together every day. Every one around us thinks we are dating. We had a talk about how we both entertained the thought of dating eachother. We really didnt elaborate alot on the issue, so I told her a week later that I wanted to finish the conversation. This time when we talked I asked her if there was something going on between us and she said " I dont know what to say about that". Later that night she texted me and told me she was embarrassed and sorry she couldnt talk to me earlier. So we talked later and I asked her if she was thinking the same thing as me, but never told her what I was thinking. She told me yea she was thinking the same thing. It has been 2 weeks since this conversation. Is it too late for me to make a move?
I really want to kiss her. Should I try and see what happens? Does she like me?
2006-12-08 15:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by sweedeeeeeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
trust me on this one ok!!She does like u..she especially likes ur company. One day after work take her to the movies and make ur move then. If she likes u she will let u but if not *SORRY* move on...but i think u should give it a go. and confront her about it. If the movies go good. Ask her out on front of the work place staff who really cares if they know they seem to gossip anyway. So go for it!!
hope it works out 4 u
cat
2006-12-08 15:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you even think about kissing or dating anyone, make sure you have the same morals, because one day they may be teaching your child what they think. Also make sure they follow the same God as you do. Everyone has a god whether they want to admit to it or not. A believer and an unbeliever should not be in relationship with one another. And make sure she is free of STDs.
2006-12-08 18:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by cutegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it would not be a good idea to mix business with pleasure if you know what I mean. It just sounds like you will be the typical guy dating his assistant (secrectary). But if she is easy I'm sure you have a chance.
2006-12-08 17:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by thequeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the kiss for your date. Ask her out. It sounds like she likes you and is just waiting for you to make a move. Girls are like that sometimes :-). Don't wait another day. Call her right now and make a date; go....have fun!
2006-12-08 15:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by kalliope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss the girl already! First off, you only live once. You will regret every day that you did not just gone ahead and kissed her! The question of rejection is in the past. Your in, bub, take it!
2006-12-08 15:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Sounds to me that your friend has been hurt in the past and doesn't want to experience that again. Also she I think she does like you but she doesn't want to be disappointed or loose your friendship if it doesn't work out between you two.
2006-12-08 15:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Priscilla A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well stop wondering what would happen, go and do it. if i have learned anything its that life is too short worrying or wondering what might or would have happened. take a chance, ask her to a movie
2006-12-08 15:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by SO SASSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you DONT do anything at work....ask her after work
ALSO MOST work relationships are not a good thing it adds
way to much emotion into a work environment and rarely works.
2006-12-08 15:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋