Our relationship last for 7months and it was almost 6months after we borke up... Distance is the only reason to our break up... I had 4 boyfriends after him and now, I had my 5th but why is it like this??? I still think of him.... Were friends for now... He still cares for me, he's telling me that he still love me ... But he keeps on telling me to move on... What should I do???
2006-12-08 15:27:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hunny, if you really want to be with him, then live closer to one another! One of you got to sacrifice to go where the other is...
Since you said distance was the only reason you two broke up, if that doesn't change, then how could it work? Unless both of you don't care about the distance anymore??
Which of you decided that the distance would be the problem?
By you having boyfriends one after another, that probably hurt your friend/exboyfriend. Sounds like you are going from one to another because you miss what you had with this particular exboyfriend.
If your decision is to move on, then I think it takes him to have a committed girlfriend too (as well as you have a committed boyfriend) so that your heart will give up.
However, I don't get why you two don't try to work on making it work??
2006-12-08 15:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take his advice and move on. If you don't you will never heal. If he says he loves you he probably does which makes him care about you however he's not in love with you there is a big difference between the two. It's very hard but you need to force yourself to let go and move on so you can heal from the emotions and feelings you feel towards him. It may take a lot of time which is normal and OK but the key is to keep moving forward.
2006-12-08 23:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance, like you are both live in different places, or distance , you just never are together because you don't have time for each other because of you schedules.
well, we all make it harder on each other in relationship, we can never tell how each other thinks or feels. in some way or the other we end up hurting each other . maybe he loves you more then you think, maybe he dosen't want you feel the pain he feels because you are so distant. maybe he loves you so much he wants you to be happy, when all he has know is the sadness in you heart of the distance between you to. we all you both want it to be together. the only advice i can give you is if it is true love , and it is ment to be, then you and him are ment to be together.
also , there is the option of he may have another girlfriend or he just dosn't want to get hurt again, if you are in two different places and he don't want to be mean about it or hurt your feelings
come on he is a guy, we can never tell how they think
well, just do what you fell is right in your heart.
good luck
2006-12-08 23:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by peggy1purple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but if he is telling to move on there may be a reason like maybe he has moved on. maybe a road trip to see his reaction like a surprise visit tell him you couldn't take it you had to see him. see how he reacts then take it from there. it may let him know how much you really care and the lengths you are willing to go to show your love. and make him think twice. or it may give you the closure you need EITHER WAY GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-09 00:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no what ya mean its hard when some one u love moves away and even tho u want to move on u just carn't
love sux sorry my dear time is the only cure eventually u will either forget or meet some one eles amazing
2006-12-09 08:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks that you don;t like him anymore and is telling you how he feels, then saying but its ok if you want to move on, and you should. Otherwise i don;'t know i mean if you like him again try it out once again.
2006-12-08 23:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by SO SASSY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋