2006-12-08 15:15:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about why your wife is getting drunk and if you love her enough to stick around.
When you say "every time" it sounds like your wife drinks a lot. There's a problem right there. Do you talk about what she says during these tirade? What does she have to say afterward? What is she like when she's not drunk?
Honestly, I don't know how people married to alcoholics do it. If you haven't already been to counseling, you should go. If you have children, you need to consider what her behavior is doing to them. If your wife is unwilling to get help, then you should go on your own and think about your future (and that of your children, if you have them.) Only you know how much (or how little) you love your wife and what your limits are.
Whatever you do, don't wait to take action.
2006-12-08 15:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone ever that a drunk speak a sober mind- when she is drunk she can say things that she could not say when she was sober-some drunks can be very nasty-they know what they are doing-she like to do and say those nasty things to you because you let her and she can say that she was drunk -BULL S--T-if you act a fool when you drink you need to stay away from alcohol and not use it as a excuse, and you need to stop making excuses for her -she need to stay away from the bottle-next time tape record her and let her hear how she sound and see what her reaction is then you will know just how drunk she really was
2006-12-08 15:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since alcohol releases inhabition, maybe she really means what she says. If I may, I want to ask two questions. Does this happen alot? Does she drink alone, or do you party together? Before anyone can answer your question, it seems as though she needs to resolve personal issues of her own.
2006-12-08 15:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be around her when she drinks. just leave. if she drinks all the time and you have to leave all the time then find your own place and cut off ties with her. you will be better off.I also like the idea of recording her and letting her hear how she acts/talks to you.You could try to find help for her drinking problem but it only helps those who want it to help.can force that kind of reform.good luck
2006-12-08 15:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by angie devine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dad is an alcoholoic think twice before having children with this women, make sure she is mentally strong enough to not use alcohol as her way out.
2006-12-08 15:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her about this problem when she is sober and in a receptive mood. She has a drinking problem, and it needs to be addressed. Unchecked, it will destroy your marriage.
Best wishes.
2006-12-08 15:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take away the alcohol and get her to AA or else it will never change, cuz the next thing will be physical abuse to either u or the childre (if there are any) and the sad thing is if she does hit u and u defend yourself, u will go to jail not her. take control get rid of the booze and get her into treatment
2006-12-08 15:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by keithy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go to Alanon.
Get some video tape of her, I bet she has no idea of what she is like when she drinks.
2006-12-08 16:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything.. she needs to stop drinking if she values your relationship....if she is going to be harmful to the relationship while drunk...
2006-12-08 15:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking!
2006-12-08 15:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by shendley04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋