The woman across the street and I think our spouses are having an affair with each other. We know they talk on the phone almost every day, and only for around 10-15 minutes each time. They've both cheated before, and its pretty obvious they are. Whats the best way to find out? Should we set up some kind of video camera? Any ideas would be very appreciated....
2006-12-08 15:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just f... that woman across the street and you defiantly will find out what is going on, man!!! Wow, you so f... up...
2006-12-08 15:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't trust your wife, the relationship is in serious trouble rgardless of whether she is cheating or if you catch her. If the woman across the street is nice looking you should consider having an affair of your own or asking the other man if he wants to trade.
2006-12-08 15:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by TexasRed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.......You have a computer.Leave your house for a little bit and set up your webcam.The video recorder on the cam might catch her in the act.If you have one that is.Somebody told me they use cams to catch bad nannys.Could work on this issue as well.Also heres another trick.Baby monitors.Leave it on and take the receiver with you but dont go very far from your house or it wont pick much up.Youll be able to hear anything she says if its on the phone or if someone is in your house with her.Good luck!
2006-12-08 15:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you going to do when it is proven that they are cheating? Tell her to "cut it out"? If she has cheated before, then she'll cheat again. It's her nature. And furthermore, regardless of whether she is cheating at the moment, you can rest assured that she will cheat in the future. Therefore, it is immaterial whether she is indeed cheating at the present time because you can pretty much agree that she will cheat on you at some point in the future. What puzzles me is why you put up with it.
2006-12-08 15:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the beginning, if she isn't a contemporary student, he might desire to no longer get into hardship. Now, if she replaced right into a student of his whilst all of it started, possibly, yet nevertheless very no longer likely except you have absolute info. it is your spouse, why do no longer you reason her some hardship? Divorce her cheating *** and pass on.
2016-10-14 07:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it obvious, then you don't need to spy on them, move on. Sounds like you don't trust her, and if you don't, then leave. If there's no trust there's nothing. And why are you with her or still with her if she has cheated in the past?
2006-12-08 16:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video camera, voice activated recorder, spying, so many things on the market.
2006-12-08 15:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if there's no trust, then what kind of relationship do you have??? why don't you just ask? if she says no and you think shes lying, then you have 1 of 2 problems: insecurity or she's a liar.... either way, both of you should get marriage counseling or a divorce (although, that would be last resort, don't add to that damn statistic)
2006-12-08 15:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Steffany E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
video camera with audio near phone to catch talking and what they say to eachother. make sure its on when your not home or in shower or something, or when u feel she'll sneak a call.
2006-12-08 18:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dig a hole in your bedroom, then cover it with a rug, when/if your wife comes in with her lover they'll fall in there and you will catch her!
2006-12-08 15:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jawzliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋