We have only been married for 1 month but his drinking and manner is driving me crazy. He does not take action on anything and he is and has become very demanding. He is stressing me out do all his stuff, while my priorities have taken the back door. In his eyes, all he cares about is his stuff
2006-12-08 15:13:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to AA with him.
2006-12-08 15:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand that there is no such thin as an ex alcoholic,however there are some that are catagorized as recovering alcoholics who have not touch a drop in a very long time ,but for the most part once you have accepted the fact you are you also are, and it is not uncommon for them to jump off the wagon and start drinking again, he needs to get back into AA and it wouldn't hurt for you to support him by attending the meetings with him,Good Luck
2006-12-09 01:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once an Alcoholic always and forever and EVER an ALCOHOLIC you never become an EX to this disease. Even if your partner was sober for 20 years he would still be considered a Alcoholic. Get yourself to Al-anon ASAP DO NOT GO TO AA with him thats for him you need Al-anon
2006-12-08 23:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This same thing happened to my mom. She dated a recovering alcoholic for a few years, but then when they moved in together, he started drinking again soon after! He completely changed. He became horrible to live with. They have since split because she couldn't deal with it. I am so glad. She lived with my dad in a crappy marriage for 20 years, so I did not think she deserved to be in another bad relationship.
2006-12-08 23:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by danika1066 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello, so you have been married for a month, and he is drinking. You need to go ASAP to alcoholics annonyms and go with him to these meetings, get counseling as well for the marriage, go to your church or preference and get counsling there as well. Why did he start drinking? Just be careful. Please seek help , stay safe. God bless always the both of you.
Tatiana
2006-12-08 23:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself.
2006-12-08 23:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope cut your losses before you end up married with children and he hits you
dont make it more than one error of judgement because that would make you foolish
2006-12-08 23:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol will do that
he needs to go to rehab right away
if he doesn't
leave him
2006-12-08 23:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out
2006-12-08 23:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋