I have a spouse, we've been together for about 9 years we have two beautiful daughters together. Our relationship has been rocky in the past but we still make it work.
I have guys that like me and I tend to keep them on the line, for some reason. They have other relationships in the meantime, but I keep it where there is a tinge of hope that someday I will leave my current spouse. I never had any kind of relationship with them just basically still talk to them. They are alway flirtin with me and I don't say anything to stop the flirting, I just laugh or change the subject We are basically just friends, but they do like me and are always jokin around saying things like when you gonna marry me.. Is this ok. I also like it when a guy has a crush on me and basically egg it on. I guess I like the attention. I don't know what the hell does that mean? Anyone out there have any thoughts.
2006-12-08 15:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can't say exactly why you are doing it. It could be you like the attention. It could also be that it flaters you for a mother of two to still be disireable, and It could be that you are afraid that if your husband leaves you or vise versa you will be sad and alone. All I can say for sure is if you are getting other guys to want your relationship to fail is it possible you want it to? Maybe you are unhappy with him but don't want to admit the wasted years.
2006-12-08 15:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by I wanna dance naked in the rain! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would it be okay with you if your husband behaved with other women as you are doing with men? I think you are playing with fire when you flirt and "egg it on," with these men. You ask, "Is this okay?" I think you know it's not okay or you wouldn't be asking for reassurance from strangers. If you are not happy in your relationship with your husband, you need to be honest with yourself and do some soul searching as to what you feel is missing in the relationship and makes you seek out the attention of other men. Then sit down and have a heart to heart talk with your husband if you are committed to making your marriage work. And if your not committed, I think you are on a path that will lead to the eventual failure of your marriage.
2006-12-08 23:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all about the attention . I used to do this all the time , when I wasn't getting what I needed from my mate at the time .
2006-12-08 23:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you feel special but be careful so that you don't cross the line.
2006-12-09 14:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way. i dont know what it is. i guess its like you said, you enjoy the attention
2006-12-08 23:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well throw a egg my way
2006-12-08 23:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋