Ok here is the deal I have been straight all of my life untill I meet this girl named Brandy. She was nice and the complete oppisite of me. I like her alot and I am not ofr sure if she likes me. She likes to cling on to me and hold my arm and she likes sitting in behind my legs and today she was rubbing my leg. I am only 15 and I don't know if she does like me or what? What do you think?
2006-12-08 14:37:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sounds like she is.. and if so go for it.... there is nothing wrong with the same sex relationship but since you are only 15 your parents may have a problem with it... But many people learn their sexuality at this age because they experiment with different things... Hope it works out fine for you and you learn something about yourself
2006-12-08 14:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are young, and that is part of your curiosity. Are you sure this girl is not just very touchy. I use to have a friend that every time she would see me or anyone she would have to hug and I would wonder if there was something with it, and now I believe after this much time she is just that way. Straight and really a touchy person.
You are very young, to be analyzing this right now, maybe just step back and see how you feel and not think of how it feels with this certain girl. You are just so young to really know what you want sexually. I am not saying you do not have feelings or a clue. I am saying you have time to sort through all that. Be careful, that is a hard thing you are going through. Good Luck
2006-12-08 22:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she likes you, or likes being with you, so you at least have her as a feiend. seeing how you're 15, I'd suggest you pursue the friendship, and give it time so that if she does like you "In that way", it can develop into something more. The last thing Id hope for you is that you rush into it, freak her out because she's just s friend,m and have her leave.
Give it a little bit of time and see what develops.
2006-12-08 23:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Xavier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez... when we're 15 we have all sorts of sex urges! Heck, I think that my cat was attractive one day when I was that age!
The truth is that everyone is attracted to both men and women. Most of us go for one or the other most of the time, but once in a while we find a person of the other gender to be attractive.
When you daydream about love, sex and stuff... do you daydream about doing things w/ another woman, or with a guy? That will tell you loads about your attractions.
So, what do I think? I think that your friend might be a lesbian, or might be bi... and is probably just as confused as you are.
2006-12-08 22:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by geek49203 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 15 and your friend is close to your age chances are that she and probably you are at least curious. Try not to put a label on anything yet. You are 15 and curious...be curious and experiment.. its not like you have to have sex or anything..just talk and see what eventually comes of it.
2006-12-08 23:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have been straight your whole life until now? What happened? Did you two do something or what? Just ask if she digs chicks. If so Good luck!!
2006-12-08 22:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by your papi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's a creep, she was probably just messing around..
A bunch of my friends and I always do that when we're having fun together.. Maybe she was having fun too.....
If she wasn't and you wanna stay straight then tell her that you didnt want her all over you like that..
2006-12-08 22:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Funnie Bunnie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her straight up. i got asked that.
(her name), are you gay? (with a nervous laugh and smile)
say: dont worry i'm totally cool with it if you are. i was just wondering.
or you can do the same to her--rub her legs and all that and see her reaction
2006-12-09 05:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by fefe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why am i listening to brandy as I read this queston !! Seriouusly, this was the last thing from my mind at your age. please concentrate on what kind of person you want to be first. Then any other question you have will come and go easily.
2006-12-08 23:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by discokevin2001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think she does where is she from it could be just a custom I mean I have heard of some customs that do that
2006-12-08 22:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by My Life is in Black and White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋