I am a boy and my best friend is a girl. She has boy issues and now her heart is broken how can i helpp her as a boy?
2006-12-08 14:37:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all you can do is comfort her!!! if she is your best friend and she is heart broken just let her talk to you and tell her how you feel. she probably needs you right now more then ever!! trust me im a girl and i have a best friend as a boy too his name is matt and anytime something is wrong he always is there for me and just listens and gives me advice! thats what she needs right now!
2006-12-08 14:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by just being her friend, let her know u are there. you know she is depressed and try to put a smile on her face. draw her a funny picture, take her to the dairy queen, or for a burger, just not so she can run into her heartbreak. do silly things for the next couple of days, call her up and say hurry hurry come over, and when she gets there tell her u just wanted to play a game cards, yahtzee dice or anything just to get her mind off things
2006-12-08 22:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by shelli p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to her. Let her vent. Don't get too close. Too many relationships where best friends become more than friends under these circumstances and then often times, regret it.
Be careful!
2006-12-08 22:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for support, a shoulder to lean on at hard times ;). Try keeping her mind of that subject, and find something else for her to keep her occupied. And tell her how life must go on, blah blah xD.
2006-12-08 22:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Chaotic_Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hallmark
2006-12-08 22:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if your JUST friends, then make her feel safe. Your a male, and me being a female feel safer around males.(dont ask) I had a friend help me whenever a guy crushing on me was really angering me. He got revenge on him, and he doesn't bother me anymore. Make her feel secure. Girls have "issues" and they need somebody to talk to who will listen. Try talking about it, and it may help her.~~~good luck~~~
2006-12-08 22:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Meaganboomc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's lucky to have a friend like you, so don't be broken hearted!
2006-12-08 22:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, don't hit on her!-support her-don't rent sappy romantic movies-get comedy or films that will take her mind off of things.
You're a good friend!
2006-12-08 22:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by apesee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like a girl..be a good friend to her and tell her she can do better and all that and comfort her
2006-12-08 22:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive as you are now. Be her friend.
2006-12-08 22:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋