how should you tell your mom your not a vigin anymore?

Answer 1

You need to just tell her. You don't need to give her the gory details, but she needs to know because when you start to have sex, you also need to start seeing a gynecologist regularly, get some birth control and condoms.

Answer 2

How old are you? If you really feel that you need to tell her, make sure it's not going to give her a heart attack. More than likely if she's a good mother and you haven't been a virgin for a while, then she already knows! A good way to break it to her (if you must) could be to tell her that you would like to get on birth control, if you are at a young age that you need her for that. Therefore she will see you as being responsible and not just running wild. It'll be okay, she might be happy that you're sharing something so deep with her!

Answer 3

its al up to you, if you want to tell your mom then that means that you have a pretty strong connection with her. I think that your mom would understand, she was your age once too and she had to go through the same things. you shold choose a time when both of you are home alone and have a 'girls night in' then you can talk to her about sex and get her basic opinion on it, if you willl feel comfortable enough, you should tell her. Just dont joke about it , your mom might think that your iresponsible, and a fun night with mom might turn into a long lecture about safe sex and responsibility. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 4

Ask her how old she was when she had sex the first time. This question will open the entire conversation. If she's a good mom, she'll talk with you about your options, birth control etc. If you don't have that good of a mom, talk with an aunt or nurse: someone you can trust.

Answer 5

Why would you want your mom to know? If you want her advice regarding safe sex or if you feel guilty about it, then you should talk to her about it. If you want to tell her just because, you should probably just keep it to yourself. You don't want to upset her or disappoint her. I'm assuming you don't have an open-close relationship with her or else you wold have told her about it by now. However, it's important to have an open communication between mother and child. So, if you want to have that with your mom, you should talk to her. It sounds like you do.

Answer 6

Carefully...
Please be smart, use protection. Take your own precautions don't trust your partner to protect you.
If you feel like your mom can handle it sit down in a mature one on one with her and tell her. Tell her how you came to this decision. I think she'll be able to figure it out whether you tell her or not.
Mine did, but I'm glad I told her anyway.

Answer 7

First you should tell her because she might want to give you advice on how to protect yourself from the consequences of having sex. Or she might want to get you some pregnancy control.

She might cry or scream at you. Tell her you're sorry but you need her help and advice. Lots of things can happen during your sex escapades... you want your mom on your side.

If she really can't handle it, or gets too angry, retreat as quietly as you can to your room, and soon as you can see the school nurse or a planned parenthood clinic. They can give you the facts you need to be protected.

If you're an adolescent, the sooner the better to seek help. Be ready to be the grown-up kid you wanted to be when you had sex.

Answer 8

You start with: Mom, I have good news, and bad news. What do you want to hear first?

Whatever she says, say, "I an not a virgin anymore".

You don't have to worry about the 'other' news. She will never remember to ask.

Answer 9

She'll figure it out when the baby comes out. But seriously, whoever said it was necessary to explain yourself or your behavior to other people when it doesn't affect them one bit? The only person who ever needs to know you've had sex, or touch yourself, or like being tied up, is your immediate partner. People who feel the need to spew whatever insane disgusting thoughts or brag about activities they've engaged in, like some sort of test of love, are just insecure and looking for attention and validation. The only person you have to reach an understanding with is yourself. That's a huge problem today, blanking out their minds, instead of facing themselves, their hurts, their thoughts, their real feelings.

Answer 10

The real question is, WHY would you want to tell your mom that you're not a virgin anymore? Not only is that an odd topic to talk to your mom about, but Its none of her business.