So today I was supposed to get together with this guy so I call him early to make sure we are still gonna hook up, he says ya call me when you're free I said you tell me cuz you're the one thats out right now. He says at 1:30 I show up he isnt home I call him he says he is at the bank still and doesnt know how long its gonna be so I said ok i'll go home and call me when you arrive home, he says ok. I wait and nothing I called him 4 hrs later and said so what happened he said Im really sry I got side trackted this is my only day off, I said you dont have to give me excuses if you didnt want to do anything thats all you had to say. He said I do, then he said ok what are you l8r I said nothing he says ok want to hang out I said ok are you sure am I gonna be waiting forever, he says no call me at 8. Ok stupid me calls him and he says everything is piling up today and Im behind and lets just reschedule. Like what the hell why couldnt he just have said nooo from the very beginning. Be str8!
2006-12-08 14:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by Patricia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is not the first time we do things b4 it has been fine we set a time he is a little bit late and thats it.!!!!
2006-12-08 14:30:19 · update #1
He is the kind of man that I would DUMP SO FAST HE WOULD BE WONDERING WHAT TRUCK HE WAS ON!
You know the truck I'm talking about right...the one that picks up the TRASH ON WEDNESDAYS!!!
Contrary to beliefs that there are too few men....there will always be another man!!! Cut your losses and don't miss another day of your FREE time...waiting on a man to make it good!
If he isn't ready to roll, find somebody else to roll with! Don't call him again...and when he calls again....make plans with him that you don't plan to keep...make alternative arrangements and be conveniently BUSY!!!
Maybe he will get the HINT!
2006-12-08 14:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like tell him that you have better things to do with your life rather than being late down or waiting for him forever i would tell him that if he wants to do somthing with you than you need to make a time rather than go around blowing you off every chance that he gets..
Good luck
2006-12-08 22:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he really was busy or he just doesn't want to spend time with you. I'm thinking if he wanted to spend time with you, he would have made the time. Wait for him to call you again.
2006-12-08 22:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this. Trust me, an awesome person is in your future who will be crazy for you. Don't do this to yourself, you will create a pattern for yourself that will blind you from a truely wonderful person. Build your self-esteem, don't destroy it.
2006-12-08 22:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by irishfrijole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg he is so tryin to get out of things with u..why who knows i thnk he is interested in someone else
2006-12-08 22:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋