I have trouble making friends.?

Question

I have trouble talking to new people. When I get it in my head to make an attempt at talking to new people I get so nervous my stomach turns, so I just bow out. The worst part is I have a harder time making female friends. I was a sortof tom boy as a child,but i had only female friends. I now have no tomboy tendencies. Now I have NO female friends and a like 2 guy friends. I'm in college and any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

Answer 1

try and find 1 good friend...and let that friend introduce you to others....its my first year in college after going to a really small hs and i am shy...i have 1 good friend and she is how i have met most of my other good friends...good luck.

Answer 2

if you are a full time college student then it will be great because most students in comm. colleges take few credit hrs and so there is little chance of meeting a friend.Just open up to people.At times,people you meet but think have mean facial expressions are really good people.Try talking to people and asking questions from people you really like in your class.There are very outgoing females out there and i hope you do find one.hey,i'm in the same situation.i go to a comm college and after class everybody just disappear within minutes and so there's no chance to talk to people because i might even be delaying them to work.if you were in Austin,we could make a good friendship.good luck.

Answer 3

Well that's harsh. Well you should just talk to someone, and from there you'll make more friends.

Answer 4

i'm like the same....dont' worry....sometimes its better that way...women are back stabbers and too emotional....but sometimes if your lucky you will find one who won;t want your man or stab you in the back,....you can find friends on yahoo messenger places like that....dont; worry about it.....take your time..if its meant to be....

Answer 5

i know how you feel... but i just started talking to more people and putting myself out there.