Me & this boy liked each other last year around this time. Then we kinda went our seperate ways cuz i started talkin to someone else. Then me and him started talkin again. He was tellin me he loved me, he still had feelings for me & that he was neva gonna break my heart. And that i hurt him when i started 2 move on. I didnt mean 2. He always flirted with outher girls. So i jus moved on. We started talking 4 a lil while & he told me he jus talked me so he can have sex w/ me & b my friend. He did me so wrong. He even told me he still loved me after that. He has love for me but he's not n love with me. I still got feelings for him. I think he was my first love. And then i find out he had somethin on the side when we were talkin.....Im so upset. Even though it's been about a month. I cant get over him. Please help me. What should i do??
2006-12-08 13:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he was playing you along with those other girls he be flirting with. Dont you get it, when a guy is a flirt, he is trying to get at the girls. You should have left him alone. Guys who flirt are players. Its the shy guys who are scared to approach you that you should be talking to.
Im not saying that shy guys dont cheat, but its harder for them to, because theyre so shy.
anyway...you shouldnt be stressing about him, because he doesnt give a sh!t about you. He knows he's got you rapped around his finger like a puppet to have sex with whenever he wants. Thats what players want, females to love them, and do it to them. He may have love for you yes, but he has love for all those other girls you dont know about.
you'll get over him. Get sexy, go out, and meet new people. Find a guy whos hot, make him a target, and aim. Go for him. and Leave that player behind.
2006-12-08 18:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want advice? Because it's to dump the Guy. Okay, If he's not ready for monogamy and insists that it's okay if he flirts and is unfaithful, then, this is not a man worth keeping.
You're probably cringing, thinking, "But I still have feeling for him!" Trust me, he's not worth having feelings for. The love of your life will respect your needs and wishes, and won't disrespect you by being unfaithful or sleeping around with others. God help you if you end up marrying him then you be in worse trouble than you are in now!!
And one more thing next time he comes crawling back to you with all his apologies and wants to have sex with you just 'Kick his but out of the door, dont even think twice about it, just do it.
Just ask yourself if a man who has to be coerced into being faithful is likely to remain faithful over the long haul. We all know that breaking it off with someone is never easy. It sucks, to be more precise, but at times you have to do this for your own good.
There are lots of good guys around who will love you for you and just not for 'sex'.
Good luck>
2006-12-08 17:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u done everyting so fast because of this u r facing this problem. if u wanna forget all past it is impossible u can only do this talkto ur old friends. spend time with them. one thing i would like to tell u any relationship u make with anyone in future try to spend atleast 2 to 3 years without any commitment without love without touching him and if still u both r happy then he is ur best friend, u can also say him ur boyfriend or husband
2006-12-08 17:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by deep_sun2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C the first thing is ... u love tht person who expt u with all wht u r ... ( PURE) if someone is saying just talk to me thn i think he is selffis man .... and whn u r talking to someone he dont like .... no sorry i will simply say pls lev tht type of person ... life is not so small u will get better which is made for u by god ... me and my husband never stoping eachother to talk with anyne but ys our realtion is on trust
2006-12-08 16:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Monica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first ((get yo hair done and buy some sexy new clothes))don`t be all sad about him he was a playa hun and thats real lyfe things yo going to have to deal with again and again tell him he did you dirty and you ain`t feeling it then strunt yo stuff in front of him he`ll get jealous then kiss him say to bad it ain`t yours walk away don`t answer his calls and don`t answer the door do him dirty just like he did you dirty then move on!!!!
2006-12-08 13:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by hello_kitty_maddy_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over him, It is only a matter of time. You will be meeting many such boys in future. It is not a bid deal.
2006-12-08 15:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You says that when you broke up,both of you went separate way.It is not fare that he should take blame for this mess.He is honest with you to tell that he want sex only.You want to be friend with whoever you want but want him to be your property only.It do not work this way.
2006-12-08 13:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a fool
he wants sex from you and still u r confused
want love or want to become call girl
decision is entirley yours
2006-12-08 16:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by hulchul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋