because my brother is gay
2006-12-08 13:23:10 · 32 answers · asked by Megan J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Are you willing to let your brother make you a lesbian?
It is none of your business who your brother is attracted to, and if you start telling him that you know better than he does who he is attracted to you will ruin your relationship with him.
2006-12-08 13:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Pray.
Not for your brother, but for yourself. Pray for understanding. Pray for an open heart and an open mind. Pray to be a good sister to your brother, who is gay the way God made him.
(If nothing else, it'll give you something else to do besides ask stupid questions.)
2006-12-08 17:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna screw his psychology up just because you can't accept him? It is your choice whether to accept him or not. Do not try to mess with some one's life, especiallly in something like this. Besides there is nothing that can be done to turn him straight. God has made him perfect the way he is. If God had wanted him straight then God would have made him straight.
2006-12-08 13:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
That's like me asking you, how do I make you gay again? You don't, and it's none of your damn business. He made his choice. He needs your support not your narrow minded views. Pro-choice. Glad your not my sister, I'd smack you upside the head twice, then I'd smack our mother for having you. I know how he can disown you. Just keep up this crap. Grow up.
2006-12-09 07:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by zzap2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he's gay? Sorry, there's not a pill out there to change your sexual preference. Don't go around changing people if they're not doing any harm.
2006-12-08 13:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
straight again? he's always been gay....if you love your brother, you'll accept him for who he is. you can't change him to straight anymore than he can change you to gay.
2006-12-08 14:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just turn gay! then you woudn't have nothing to worry about.
Stop being a little baby and grow up!
2006-12-08 13:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by digitaldancer22 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
how can i turn u lesbian? right that docent sound right? hes ur own flesh and blood let him be happy the way he is he was born that way let him be there nothing u can do only love him like ur brother
2006-12-08 14:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont try and change your brother into what he isnt. Let him be himself. Be his rolemodel, just dont change him. Its awful when someone you love is trying to get you to be something your not. It will hurt him. And come back on you and hurt you later on. Everyone needs to just be themselves. No one else.
2006-12-08 13:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Can you change his eye color? Or his height?
Of course not.
You have the same chance of changing one genetic characteristic as another.
Which is to say, zero.
Accept him for who he is. If you can't do that then he's better off without you.
2006-12-08 13:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋