being happy is so relative... people are naturally insatiable... i wish i knew how to balance everything... i've tried almost everything... others just make me so unhappy, not love life and not love what i'm doin'... :-(
2006-12-08 13:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by nana 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't exactly think you can force yourself to be happy. You can start by searching for someone that'll make you happy (I'm not necessarily talking about a mate. A good friend that'll listen to your troubles is better, i think). Or you can list all the things you are thankful for. Whenever I really dislike something, I think about how life would be without it, and that helps alot. I think you're just pessimistic by nature. I guess you can't help it. Try hanging out with a positive person.
2006-12-08 13:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try to find a middle ground, something that pays well but incorporates what you like. Say, for example you love art but they obviously pay terribly for careers, try something like architecture or interior design which are more practical yet let you express your creative art style and still pay the bills. Life is full or compromises abd this is just one of them. You have to choose something your mind and heart can both agree on and if you have other interests such as math or science you could even go as far as to become an engineer altjough this is all pertaining to one example depeds on your intrests really. I recommend doing some research on what other pwople in your situation have done. Good luck!
2016-05-22 21:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A way to love life and is to reaize that only YOU can be the one to change the way you feel. No matter who it is, everyone has good and bad times in their life. You have to learn to accept the bad experiences you go through, it's a part of growing up. And often, the hard times we've dealt with in life are what teaches us the most about life.
2006-12-08 13:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you can do is to think of others first and see what you can do to make the lives of others better. When you do things for other people it makes them feel good and it makes you feel good...people treat you better and your outlook on life just seems to improve overall. Volunteer...do something special for someone you really care about...write a hand written letter to an old friend...
2006-12-08 14:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by DGS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up! Stop being so pesemistic...
Go and do something nice for someone else
spend a whole day in the burn ward of a childrens hospital
go spend a day with kids in wheelchairs
and then go kill yourself, you rich, healthy, *****!
2006-12-08 13:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Christian Paragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you considered that it moght be depression? Nothing seems right when one is depressed!
2006-12-08 13:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by JackJester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋