I know that most guys prefer it to be shaved, most of the way, if not all the way. If it were me, I would just ask him if he has any preferences. Then, just act like you meant nothing by it, knowing guys, he will forget 20 seconds after you ask it anyway, and then surprise him on your special night!! Congrats on the wedding, by the way. Good Luck!
2006-12-08 13:19:30
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answered by ladylew07 2
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Depends on the guy. Some like shaved, some think it looks creepy. Some guys really like the hair, some think it looks gross. I think, for the most part, by the time you get to that point (particularly if he's now your husband!), he's not going to care as long as everything's clean. If you're worried, try asking him. Or maybe just go in for a basic wax job to make everything look neat and groomed. If he has a strong preference, he'll probably let you know later.
2006-12-08 13:27:02
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answered by random6x7 6
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Shaving is very irritating. If you haven't done it before, don't do it on your wedding night. Likely you'll get rasor burn and scream if he touches you. Or heaven forbid, you do it before the wedding, and are so uncomfortable your pictures are awful, and you can't wear underwear, and are trying to itch yourself through your tulle.
If he's a nature loving guy (and you met at the coop), just be clean and wash yourself with a natural soap. If he's pretty much part of the civilized world, I would recommend a trim, to about a half inch. That won't be uncomfortable for you or cause a rash.
Congratulations for waiting. Enjoy yourself.
2006-12-08 13:26:09
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answered by Singinganddancing 6
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For your first time ever I'd keep it simple, head to the bathroom with some scissors and trim it to 1/2 and inch, then in the shower shave the bikini line to make it nice and neat. Simple, no itch, no irritation. Trust me, the second your panties come off he's not going to care anyway. After you've been together a while and are comfortable talking about your private areas with him go ahead and ask. Don't go all out shaving for your first night - just in case it doesn't work out too well.
2006-12-08 13:36:49
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answered by *~*AlexisClaire*~* 2
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welll in my opinion when u shave that part turns ugly and messed up but if u wax it it does hurt but it removes all the bad skin cells it cleans it and it takes gd care of that part leaving it soft and pretty oh and btw when u wax there is a certine way 2 do it email me and i can explain it 2 u but a short tip the strip kind dont work olny the kind that comes in a jar or lose kind works better then the strip cuz it hurts less oh n btw happy wedding welll not yet lol but i hope u and him share the best of the best days ever oh and gd night on ur night 2 remember : )
2006-12-08 13:27:56
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answered by idkjustanothergurl 3
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all men are different. some prefer shaved, some like it trimmed, while others like a 'landing strip.' personally, although i'm not a guy myself, i think the landing strip can be sexy. shaving can irritate your skin, besides if you've never done it before, you can do some serious damage! you can nick yourself! plus, it'll burn in the beginning if you don't know what you're doing. and when it grows back, forget about it! you won't be able to have sex for weeks until the stubble grows out long enough! your poor husband, it'll be like rubbing his penis on a grater!!! my advice, don't do anything drastic. and don't ask your husband what he likes, either!!! it's not ladylike to discuss such things! men, and believe me when i say this, are most satisfied w/ a woman who is satisfied w/ herself. so long as you're neat and you don't smell up the joint, i'm sure he'll like whatever you have to offer. exhibit a little confidence, that's the sexiest thing of all! congrats!
2006-12-08 13:34:28
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answered by Anonymous
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If you want to be, um, bare, down there, go out and by "Magic Shaving Powder". It is shaving powder that men use but it works magic on ... down there.
You just put a little water in and then slap it on your pubes, wait 5-7 minutes, and wash it off. No worries about the razor nicking your sensitive areas.
Trust me, it works!!!!!
2006-12-08 14:02:22
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answered by Terri 7
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not trying to be rude or anything but speaking as a male myself; if this lucky guy is willing to spend the rest of his life with you for better or worse than perhaps u already know the answer. good fortune and bless u guys.
2006-12-08 13:23:48
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answered by naztman2000 2
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i like it neatly groomed , that means trimmed , not a landing strip , or shaved , but not so hairy , that it looks like a forest either
2006-12-10 05:56:30
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answered by Anonymous
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guys like your pube hair short and trimmed, not all fluffy and wild, looks better, hope this helps
2006-12-08 13:25:08
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answered by Anonymous
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