I have been married almost 2 years, but I think my husband is cheeting. He got his oun cell, got new address, and i found a pizza box with a girls number-- one day i called his work and he did not go-- when i asked him about it he said that he was not cheeting. But I did a little surch and the address and numbers i found go to another woman. I think he is and just dose not want to hurt me while I am carring the baby. Should I just file for seperation get it over with or keep trusting in my husband?
2006-12-08 12:53:22 · 24 answers · asked by monica_sargeant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would have to honestly say he is cheating on you. The bastard - he shouldn't be cheating on his wife let alone the wife who is carrying his child.
I would tell him that you believe he is cheating and are fully prepared to leave! You don't deserve that - and neither does your baby. Good luck!
BTW, Your previous question said your husband wanted a divorce and another guy was going to help you raise your baby?? So if you are already getting divorced what is the problem?
2006-12-08 13:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women's 6Th sense is usually right. Do you really want to continue to live this way? Do you really want you child to have to deal will all of this. I think that it is better to let him go. You will be very busy with a baby and all. You won't have time to put up with that. Do what will make you and your baby happy. It's better to do it now then later. It will be a lot easier now then if you wait.
2006-12-08 13:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tyetta P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE BUT ME. Yes, your baby IS important, but this is SERIOUS and you have to end it before he does. you need to be confident, and independant and move on. He's going to BEG you to stay and BEG for forgivness...but you shouldn't listen to him. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater....be smart, talk to a professional, and i'm tellin u right now, even marriage counseling won't help with this one. He's cheating, he's confident you won't leave him because you "NEED" him for the baby and so on. you deserve better. there are a lot of single mothers out there and there are A LOT of guys who are willing to go out with a girl who has a kid these days...don't worry. be strong...good luck!
2006-12-08 13:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is serious, but I am not sure what cheeting is?
2006-12-08 13:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy this is so hard. I am so sorry. If you are pregant this is not a g ood time for the divorce. Maybe he is jealous because of the baby, why don't you talk to him in an open way or get help from your family or friends or even the CHurch?
Good luck.
2006-12-08 12:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you've got proof confront him,show him your proof although
he's probably going to lie anyway,you don't need a cheating
husband especially if you're going to have his child,think of yourself and the baby,I've been there done that,besides if hubby wants to have his cake and eat it too,he will have to support you and his child,let's see how he likes that!!!!
get rid of him,find someone who loves and respects you
good luck!!!!
2006-12-08 13:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey once a cheat always a cheat.I left a guy because of this very reason 20 years ago.I still have my beautiful 20 year old daughter and went on to meet someone very faithful.
2006-12-08 13:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by mickeys girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now would you honestly allow complete strangers to make that decision 4 you?? we dont live your life & cant, we also didnt fall in love with your husband,marry him & now pregnant with his child..the point im trying to make is~ who knows your husband better than you, havent the 2 of you been through trials & tribulations before?? or is the 1st??well im here 2 tell you u'r trials come to make you strong!! who do u really know with a problem free life & a perfect marriage??NO ONE!!! you married this man so therefore you love & want to be with him, from u'r story people r gonna saY leave him but what we or them dont know is how he makes you smile or how good he is to you or any of the small or big details that made you fall in love with this man in the begining & continue to love him now!!! PRAY HONEY!!!! & THIS IS YOUR "HUSBAND"" MY ADVICE WOULD BE TO HOLD ON & WORK THROUGH IT 2GETHER, U DEFINETLY CANT DO IT ALONE ,BUT I CANT MAKE THE CHOICE FOR YOU, TAKE YOUR TIME & EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP & ASK GOD TO GUIDE,COMFORT & BLESS YOU THROUGH THIS TRYING TIME & IM WILLING TO GUARANTEE YOU THAT YOU WILL KNOW WICH ROAD TO TRAVEL..GOOD LUCK & BEST WISHES..
2006-12-08 13:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard but dam well you dont wana blame him because but if he isnt but if he is hes not going to tel you. So find out yourself take a friend that you trust so you can rely on someone and then if you think you can handle it while you pregnant leave him because he migt leave u after
2006-12-08 13:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can get a private eye to confirm your suspicions or call that show cheaters. Afterward, if its' bad news, take him to the cleaners!!!
2006-12-08 13:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋