i was just wondering what people think of my life:
im 17, pregnant to a baby girl, my fiance is 26, i used to weigh 115 brfore the baby, now i weigh 135, im 5 months pregnant, i live in a house in the beautiful city of Asiago, in the italian mountains, i look exactly like sophia bush, and my husband has a good job, i graduated at the top of my class when i was 16 and i'm going to collage after the baby i sborn and after i get married.
things that i think are bad:
my parents want to kill me and they hate my guts so much.
please tell me what you think, because i want opinoins. I do not appreciate ruda and nasty remarks, but i will deal, please dont insult me, and thank you to anyone who answers.
2006-12-08 12:47:06 · 16 answers · asked by October 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I applaud you. Ya you got pregnat at a young age but you took responsibility. And the fact you are going to collage after the baby is born instead of dropping out shows alot about you. You need to understand your parentz though. Juss keep doin wat ur doin and show your parentz that ya maybe you made some mistakes but your taking responsibility for your action!!!! I admire you cuz many gurlz b getting pregnant and don take that responsibility. Good 4 you!!! Good luck with your baby. I hope all goes well. Much luv
CINDY
2006-12-08 13:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not trying to be rude or nasty but why do you need feedback on your life from complete strangers? I never understand the people who come on Yahoo and ask "what do you think of my life?" It isn't important what we think. All that matters is what you think. What do YOU think of your life? If you're happy then good. If not, change it. Who cares what anyone else thinks? It is really sad when people use outside opinions to gauge whether or not they have a worthwhile life.
As for your family...I can somewhat relate. I have little to no relationship with mine. But that is okay. I have a great husband and we're expecting our third baby. I have my own family now. I also have friends who are more like family than my actual family ever was.
Remember you cannot control others. You can only control yourself. Make the choice to not let your family affect you. Just live your life the way you want and let them do what it is they do. No reason to dwell.
2006-12-08 12:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Amelia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a 42 year old mother of 2 and stepmother of one (ages 21, 14, 11). I have been married for over 19 years now. Your parents may be very worried, upset, and afraid for your future, but they do not hate you.
I think you are disappointed in yourself for some of the choices that you have made, and you are young and need to mature (that is not an insult, maturity takes time and experience).
Give your parents time to grieve for the future they wanted for you (it would take me some time if you were my daughter - but I would not ever stop loving you - you will understand that when you become a mother). They will come around (I am assuming you had a decent relationship with them and that they are good parents and people).
You need to face the choices you have made and start making good choices that will benefit you and your child and move forward. You need to mature quickly now (for your child) and become a confident woman and mother. It will take time, but do this for your child. Motherhood is hard (and I was 29) Good luck!
2006-12-08 13:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by K8 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all one can say is your life is different and I wouldn't want it because since you are so young you are going to give up more than you will gain (initially). In the long run, IF your husband stays with you AND you finish your college degree. . . you may enjoy life. You were still wrong to have a baby without marriage. Sorry, but that's true. I just hope you don't regret it and you get back together with your folks. You are going to need them.
2006-12-08 14:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that marriage is not easy, and raising children is not easy. But if you give all that you can give, and love everything you have, your life can be beautiful. I wish you luck. Your parents don't hate you. They may hate the way that your life is, but things will come around. My life was nearly the same story, and I am very close with my parents now, and my daughter is the best thing that ever happened to me.
2006-12-08 12:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by jesse s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, calm down, your parents are just upset, they will get over it once the baby comes.
Stay in touch with your parents and just let them know u love them, they will come around.
As long as u are happy with your fiance, forget what parents say. Worry about your happiness and chill out.
Sounds like u are doing Great.
2006-12-08 12:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is good that u are planning to go back to school,please make sure u follow th
rough with these plans so ur life will be much better from then on.
people make mistakes,ppl makes choices,some good some bad it is what we do with our mistakes that really count.
as for your parents they will come around,when they see u r not becoming acasulality of teenage pregnancy,judt love them and it will be metted back to youo. have a happy life.
2006-12-08 15:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by maureen s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life sounds like a normal 17 and pregnant life. don't worry about what mom and dad think once that beautiful baby girl gets here hopefully they will lighten up and the baby sounds like she has a mom who has a good head on her shoulders.
2006-12-08 13:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_peaches6969 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur 13 and we all know it. this is so cheesy of a question but atleast i get 2 points ♥
2006-12-09 08:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you date someone closer to your age? 9 yrs. is a big difference...
2006-12-08 15:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Nick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋