Can Some1 Help Me To Be More Talkative and Outgoing!!!?

Question

I Want Tips on it...i really need some help i'm Really and i rarely talk to people in School and just help me...And i don't want any1 just answer w/ stupid answers i need tips...THANx....

Answer 1

Try to talk to people that are kinda of like you, then talk about something you are interested in and know alot about.

Answer 2

The easist way to do this is to remember that people love to talk about themselves (of course we do!). And most teens feel insecure so find reasons to boost their self-confidence. Be honest about it though. For instance, if you see a guy wearing a jacket you like smile and say "I really like that jacket you have on, where did you get it?" Or maybe you see a girl with a new haircut, go up to her and enthusiastically say "You're hair looks awesome, where did you get it done?". And even reach out from time to time to the "You're looking a bit sad today is there anything I can do to help?". Not everyone will respond right away (especially if you catch them off guard), but they'll remember that you were kind to them. And that's called making a difference in this world and learning how to become more outgoing!

Answer 3

First off, you need to ask yourself, why are you shy, why do you hide between that brick wall? then work on how you can change that. You need to overcome to fear of being judged, do you not have friends or family? When youre at school, just be confident, don't be afraid to approach people and just say hi. There's a lot of people out there, just like you! You just need to find common interests in other people.

When you walk into your school, stop thinking your a loser, or ugly or etc, remember that you may think that, but there is always one girl or guy who will think you are the most beautiful person they have ever seen, but they could just be as scared to approach you. Always remember that when you get nervous around other people that wee all don't judge eachother based on looks, some of us actually look at the beauty on the inside. Just cuz you think they are prettier doesn't necessarily mean they are going to look down on you. Keep your head up.

Answer 4

I was like that -- way older when I got over it. For me it helped when I worked with the public or had to answer phones. If you're old enough to get a job get one where you have to talk to people.

I was impressed with my daughter late last summer approaching someone herself ! what must have been the first time. She told me someone told her to keep track of things that people say to THEM and just -- do it. That's part of the hard part. See, people ask you questions and you answer and then you get kinda quiet, right? So if that happens make sure you remember to ask, well, what about you? What do you think? (How are YOU doing or did you grow up in this area or ... whatever they were talking about!).

And if it doesn't happen, might be easier if someone's kinda on their own not in a group, just hey, what's up, what did you think of ... (something that happened in a class you shared).

Maybe in the locker next to you, make a point to start saying "hi" -- something simple like that, acknowledge people you know when they pass sometimes in school you get rushed and people don't always do that but a smiling face is always good to see.

Answer 5

that is one of the things that always the hardest i have the same problem when im not by my close friends or family.. I try to out rule my comfort zone, you might want try it; it will feel wrong and uncomfortable intil' you get use to it, but afterwards you will be more talkive and outgoing. Also, maybe retry to think that the person you rarely talk to as a close friend i tried that and it seem to have a pretty go effect it didn't make me feel to uncomfortable and it made "me".
Good Luck.
Remember something take time.

Answer 6

That is sooo cool that you want to be more talkative and outgoing!!! Well, you can ask yourself what keeps you from talking to other people? What is keeping you from being yourself? For me, I decided that I wasn't going to care what other people thought of me. If I am going to have friends, then they should like me for me. Don't put on a show. Don't try too hard to get out there. Just begin adjusting the way you speak. You don't have to be soft spoken. You can be confident in who you are and what you have to say. People will agree with you or disagree. However it goes you should always be Happy to say what you have to say and be sure of yourself!

Answer 7

I was and still am the same way to some extent, but I really have to force myself sometimes to be more outgoing. Try hanging out with people who are really fun and outgoing. Observe their behavior. Try not to think too much what others might think. Most of be yourself! Best wishes!

Answer 8

im the same way!
im totally different outside of school, im really outgoing and talkative, but when im in school i turn it off, idk, its just how i was brought up, to respect teachers, be quiet, follow the rules...you know? but its totally different in high school. people expect u to be wild and crazy!!!
but im starting to open up now, just be more comfortable with the people you are around, dont care what they think and just be yourself. dont be shy, u are just covering yourself up.
i find that being shy and quiet doesnt get a lot done, since everyone else is outspoken, why not you as well? :)
good luck, i know what your going through!!

Answer 9

Join clubs and other social/community activities.

One thing that helps me very much is go in front of a mirror and for about 4-5 minutes, keep praising yourself how great you are. That will help you break open from your shell in front of others.

Answer 10

Not easy I my self don't talk much in school, but I do it because every one hates me and no one want to be my friend, you could try to get some like shy friends and you could file related in so point and talk a lot in some occasionally.