I had an online friend whom I flet close to. He was quite the charmer and found me by how I still have yet to know. He drew me in and I got comfortable with talking to him.
He would say the sweetest things and seemed sincere.
But when I would read the things posted on his 360, I got a little untrusting of him and even let him know how it made me feel.
He turned it on me and made me feel to blame. So I apologized atleast 5 times. Tell me what this means and what would you do? He never took my apology. And when I closed out my account he only responded with sarcasm to my cell phone. What would you do, forget it and move on?
2006-12-08 12:44:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Serious answers only please. This really hurt, and any real advice or help in me understanding what I di I will appreciate.
2006-12-08 12:47:39 · update #1
TITANMAN " I guess you are right, I didn't seek him out though..." And he made me instantly comfortable saying all thr right things. It just seemed harmless.
2006-12-08 12:55:19 · update #2
You must not have much life if someone on the on-line community is hurting you. You should quit all of your ties with this person. He does not seem to be taking any blame for himself. It is like a redneck, who after work goes into a convenience store to purchase a "wife beater juice" (beer). He will drink all evening, then blame you for his miserable life. Therefore, my opinion is to not worry about it and move on. Also, try to find a real life guys you can touch and feel.
2006-12-08 12:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by titanman911 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can really answer that. The things that made you not trust him may have been valid reasons. Most guys will turn around the blame when confronted with a wrong doing.... why apologize if you feel that you were in the right?
Further, you apologized anyways and he didn't accept it (maybe even out of guilt) so you can do nothing to control the situation. Forget about it until he feels the need to either redeem himself (for his wrong doing) or thinks you are worthy of another chance (in the event that you were wrong).
2006-12-08 20:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you apologise to him ?? If he was writing things on his 360 that you did not like or approve of, you had every right to let him know how you felt about it !! He sounds like a bit of a casanova to me. He probably had many women that he was sweet talking at the same time as you !!He had no right to send you nasty messages on your cell phone. Then again you were probably silly for giving him your number as you really didn't know this man. If l was you l would certainly forget about him, put this experience down to poor judgement and find yourself a real man. One you can meet and date and well who knows, you could even marry him some day !! Forget about this other guy, he is not worth another thought, get on with your life and just be happy. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-08 21:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. He's the one who manipulated you when you called him on those things. His reaction is just a cover for him knowing that he was the bad guy here. I know it hurt, but with time you will feel better and forget about him. You were probably right to do what you did and save yourself a bad surprise or more hurt later. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-08 20:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CJ, i know you find comfort in this person, but like we're all saying, he's probably a psycho or he could be anyone. be careful and forget him please, he was just using you . there are a lot of guys online if that's your kind of thing...so keep chatting, i'm sure someone will comfort u as well, but this time, be sure NOT to give on real personal information orrrrrrrr your cell phone number. and change your cell phone number too. i hope he doesn't know your address....good luck
2006-12-08 20:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow after all this time him being nice he turned on you like that. well i would forget about him and stop contacting him in anyway. that wasn't very nice. He probably got pissed you found out how he really is and the game was up for him. so now he's moved on to another person who will fall for his tricks. thats too bad he turned out like that.
2006-12-08 21:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you never really know what some one on line is like only what they tell you, so if you do not trust him then all you have to do is not respond to his emails etc, he will find another person to do the same thing to very soon
2006-12-08 20:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would move on and forget about him. You really don't know him. Internet friends should not be having these types of problems.
2006-12-08 20:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...sounds like a bas&4! If you were only being honest.
2006-12-08 20:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky to have dodged that bullet. Your instincts were telling you not to trust him for a reason. I would block his # from my phone and move the heck on!
2006-12-08 20:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Indievoter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋