2006-12-08 12:37:21 · 34 answers · asked by EJ J 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, calm down, just tell your boyfriend DNA tells all.
These days guys cant say that anymore, dna tells who the father is of the child and the test can be done while the mom is pregnant.
U need a better man or re-examine the one u got
2006-12-08 12:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid to be a parent. If you aren't pregnant now, I'd take extra precautions to be sure you don't get that way anytime soon. Your boyfriend does not sound like the supportive type. When you do get pregnant you will need the love and support of your baby's father. Your baby will need it too. You should give this some serious consideration before you continue to be "with" him "like that".
2006-12-08 12:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he doesnt want the responsibility of a child, and he's warning you that if you get pregnant he will scamper off into the wild and youll have to slap him with a court order for child support.
He's showing you how immature he is, and how unwilling he is to support you if you become a burden. He does not love you enough to stay with you if you got pregnant, and is not willing to admit that he might have made the child himself.
I seriously hope youre not copulating with this man. I dont know why you're wasting your time with him. Wrap it, and stay on the pill. You'll need double defenses to make sure you dont get pregnant.
Condoms are only 83% effective, and the pill is only 92% according to usage, and thats the high end. Double them up to make sure you dont make an unwanted jounior.
2006-12-08 12:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because he's a d***head and you shouldn't be with hm in the first place. He's denying any and all responsibility in advance no less--for getting you pregnant, for failing or refusing to use birth control himself, for failing or refusing to practice absiinence. BUT, he has no trouble getting all all the pleasure he possibly can by sleeping with you--and you let hiim.
So, what do you think will happen if you really DO get pregnant? Scrweing him is very much like screwing yourself literally and figuratively in the long run. So, run now while you can or you'll be getting exactly what you see coming down the pike--in fact, he's telling you/announcing to you in advance what his stance is going to be.
Don't be surprised when and if it actually happens. You'll have no right to be bc you have been amply warned by him and us.
2006-12-08 12:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,
1. Use protection at all times with anyone you are physical with. ALWAYS! Unless you are ready to have a baby.
2. Have a baby out of love, not out of deception, ignorance, rejection or desperation.
3. Love hurts , but your dignity is more important -dump your boyfriend's sorry butt if he has that kind of insensitive attitude!
4. By protecting yourself sexually you maintain your independence, besides- it's the right thing to do.
5. And finally- DUMP HIS SORRY BUTT! (I know, I said that before but, It's worth repeating!)
2006-12-08 12:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by DRP 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should ditch him and find someone who doesnt think that.
it sounds like he doesnt love you or trust you otherwise he wouldnt say it and if you did get pregnant he would leave you.
if you love him and he loves you then use some protection to stop you from getting pregnant.then he cant put the blame on you.
he needs to grow up and act like a man when it comes to something like this.if you were to get pregnant i would hate to think that you would be a single mum coz its not easy. i am in a relationship but he works from home so i am on my own most of the time with my daughter and it is hardwork.
i hope you get this sorted hun. i would hate it if my partner turned around and said something like that to me.
2006-12-08 13:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by babytots 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well then you need to stop sleeping with him if he's going to have that attitude. If you can't count on him to even ackowledge that he would be the father of a potential child - how do you think he'd react if you realy were pregnant? Most likely he'd run, pretend it wasn't his, and be a dead beat Dad who refused to pay child support and pretends to have no job so they can't take his money from his job.
Good luck.
2006-12-08 12:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuz hes an @$$, simply put. He doesn't want a child or he really doesn't want to be with you. You really should get out of that relationship! Especially if hes showing signs of wanting to or controlling you. Also you may want to stop having sex until you're married. Things are much clearer in a relationship if you don't do it!! Trust me.
2006-12-08 12:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by flierchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nine times out of ten then can be translated "do not expect me to hang with you anymore, and do not expect me to care for it." However, there are the RARE occurrences when it translate as such "holy crap, that scares the HE** out me and it is just easier to deny for now, though I will be there to help and support you." So I would say to NOT have sex with him anymore, if he does not plan on taking responsibility for the consequences then he can do without anything.
2006-12-08 12:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably like a lot of guys, especially younger guys, not ready for comitment and responsibility. It sounds like he's letting you know that if your birth control fails he does NOT plan to be there for you and the child.
You should really think about whether this is the kind of guy you want to keep having sex with.
2006-12-08 12:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie P 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋