my friend somtimes gets mad at me. i dont know why. one night we'll be laughing on the phone and then on the way to school the next morning she wont talk to me. i have asked her if she is sad, or mad. and i will say are you mad at me and she will give me a look that i know means what do u think duh. i didn't do anything what should i do. i do not want to end our friendship. we have been friends since preschool. we are now in 7th grade. what should i do.?
2006-12-08 12:36:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is a tuff situation. It seems you really care about her and do not want your relationship to end. Well, if I were in your shoes (and depending on if she were a very close friend) I would try to talk with her about it. I would pick a time when she is calm and having a good day. If she is really a true friend, she should listen to you and honestly tell you what is up. It sounds like you have done nothing to upset her. Some people have a hard time, get in a fight at home or something and tend to take it out on friends. This, for some reason, helps them feel better. Don't blame yourself if you know you are not doing anything. Just help her through this tough time that she is probably going through. By being understanding you will have an even better friendship.
2006-12-08 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sonshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ytrain says: Get some new friends.
LastManDancing says: Well if this only started recently then she's probably have problems and you should ride it out for a while. However if this has been going on for a while just get some new friends, you're in the 7th grade and will meet new ppl.
2006-12-08 20:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Big Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change- especially teenage girls. Dont take it personally, she may just be having issues that she might be embarassed about. But if she treats you mean, tell her straight out that that is not how friends treat each other & maybe distance your self, if she is a true friend she will see the light & come back.... if not, I am sorry to say that you may need to look for some new pals.. I do not miss my teenage years, girls can be vicious & very mean, good luck!
2006-12-08 20:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Justkerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that. Does she have home problems? Or is she just a B*****? Some illnesses or medication can make a person have sudden mood changes. Maybe u could talk to her one on one and find out whats troubling her.
2006-12-08 20:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get that stick out of her ***. You're not doing anything wrong, she's the one with issues. Don't take this lying down. Don't be mean about it, but don't be totally passive. And if she can't get over whatever is bugging her, you might be better off finding other friends.
2006-12-08 20:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by PopeJaimie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is mad about something else and takes it out on you. Or, something you say/do made her mad, but you did not realize that it hurt her feelings. Remember, you can't make everyone happy all of the time.
2006-12-08 20:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Ana Erikson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be going through a phase. Try not to get too offended. Be there for her. Don't let her walk all over you either. Try to be patient. You've been friends a long time. Hold on to that.
2006-12-08 20:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't worry about it... If she want's to create drama (because that's what she's doing) let her... If she is acting weird, avoid her that day. Ask her once what's wrong, if she says nothing, assume she means what she says and go about your day.
2006-12-08 20:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may be a moody person, but it doesn't sound like it has anything to do with you. Just give her some space when she's acting like that.
2006-12-08 20:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up. She is doing it for attention. If she was really your friend she wouldn't be acting the way she is.
2006-12-08 20:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋