my husband's other woman doesnt know that he's married,they've been together for five years..she just found out now that he's married....im angry but not so much to her,is it okay if i make friends with her? we talk on the phone i havent met her yet
2006-12-08 12:34:36 · 33 answers · asked by rcy123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she doesnt know the truth thats why things like this took place
i think the problem lies with ur husband...
2006-12-08 12:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, absolutely not. Don't let her fool you. She knew he was married. And now she wants to have a relationship with you to keep up with what he is doing and befriend you so she can be a even bigger part of your life. Do you really need friends that bad. Listen to what you are saying. Come on now, really you can not be serious. Stop the nonsense and leave this women alone, she knew he was married, she just did not care. She had to know after five years and the lack of time he would spend with her. There is no way a man could hide his wife for five years. You can believe this is you want. However, I certainly hope you are not that naive or in need of friends. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-08 12:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as quickly as a cheater, consistently a cheater, curiously.. You the two might desire to get into couples counselling, or lose this dbag. It does not seem as though he values your courting in any way, fantastically on condition that he reported he'd nonetheless be with the different woman had you not caught him. not a healthful courting in any respect. he's basically gonna keep doin it, darling. i think you're able to desire to objective a separation.. He might omit you extra effective than he thinks. then lower back, it does not sound like it fairly is a courting worth saving.
2016-12-11 05:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a divorce. But, that's beside the question. It's a very bad idea to make friends with your husbands other woman. If she's around, she could 1. think that she's better than you and try to push you out of the picture. 2. Your husband could fall for her again. Neither of which you want. Are their kids involved? That would make the situation even worse. Keep in mind that people don't just stop falling in love, she could still love your husband. I would stay away from her.
2006-12-08 12:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
NO NO and again NO!
She does not want to be friends. She will use you to get information. She is also hurt very much and extremely angry if she honestly did not know about the marriage.
However I find it very hard to believe that she did not know for 5 years. Didn't she ever wonder why she hasn't met his family or spent the night with him? At least didn't she wonder why she did not have his home phone number???
I'm not being mean but I think that is a cover story because she does not want your anger directed at her.
2006-12-08 12:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by ÜFÖ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want her as a friend. Even though she may not have know he was married he still screwed around on you with HER. I have heard with wives confronting the mistress and finding out details but to be friends with her? Not a good idea. Are you doing this to piss off your husband? I would cut her out completely - out of HIS life and YOURS!
2006-12-08 12:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell no it's not okay. If they have a five year history together do you really think she wants to be a friend. Wake up girl
2006-12-08 12:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to make friends with her? She has slept with YOUR husband. I am not friends with women that have slept with MY husband. WHY? Because I AM THE ONLY PERSON ALLOWED TO SLEEP WITH MY HUSBAND. That's why he's MY husband, and not HER husband. You guys need counseling, but what you definitely do NOT need is to end up like Mary Jo Buttafuoco. It might be a game to her, because she has nothing to lose. It appears that you have EVERYTHING to lose, including your self respect...
2006-12-08 12:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be friends with her if she seems like the kind of friend you want, but I sure hope youre going to leave your husband, who knows, he may have another girlfriend.
2006-12-08 12:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure, why not. You said she didn't know he was married. In that case she did nothing wrong.
2006-12-08 20:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋