My b/f told me i had a horrible view on men i suddenly realized why.When i was only 6 i was raped.When i was 14 my father moved as far away as possible and hardly calls me or sees me.That same year i was raped again and he only went to jail because i burst into tears because they were going to let him go.Every b/f i've had(except two)were jerks.And to top it all off when i turned 16 i was raped for a year and my mother was abused when we told the police HE was the victim not us therefore hes still out there most likely raping and abusing some other woman.So tell me this guys why on Earth do men do these things??
2006-12-08 12:23:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should probably go into councelling so you can maybe change your view on men. Not all men are like that - you just happened to know and meet the a$$holes. Your bf should understand why you have the view you do. Have you told him what you just wrote here?
2006-12-08 12:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The do them because they can. If they use force, it's there fault. If they's persuaded a woman to let them do bad things, it's partially her fault. Your background makes it very, very likely you will choose abusers and dysfunctional men. There is help available to help you make better choices and keep the turds out of your life.
2006-12-08 20:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you went Thur so much horrible acts, surly you have some one to talk you Thur this pain, you have met some pretty bad men and these people are sick. but there are kind men who do care about there girl friends or spouse, take it slow..and i wish you all the best..
2006-12-08 20:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and forget the past,and move on.I went down the same road as you did and it took me for years to get over it,,I still have my moments,but have a great boyfriend of 6 years that helps me when I need to talk,,and it helps.
try to find a good ear and let it flow.you will change your mind about men,,,,you will find Mr.Right,,,just keep your head up.
Things Will GET BETTER
2006-12-08 20:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are animals, thats why adam was created in the wilderness and eve was created in the garden.... sorry to hear that this happened to you, some men don t know the meaning of right and wrong, don t expect anyone to answer this question, it s influence that is the biggest influence in these mens lives and they are not good ones...
2006-12-08 20:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by rattlingyouallover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shold carry a gun. All men are not like that, but rapist pry on theweak and those that they see as vulnerable. Soory about your story...pretty sad. Stay strong and don't turn down love if you find someone real.
2006-12-08 20:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lucci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cut the dick off the next guy who abuses I promise when word gets out another man won't mess with you.
2006-12-08 20:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen sweatheart not all men bad someday you will find the man of your dreams but in the mean time be careful and i wish you the very best god bless you
2006-12-08 20:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For we have fallen into separation from God. His love is so immense for us, however, that he has given unto us free will.
2006-12-08 20:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Comrade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are evil..men are worthless.. men are ****...thats y i dont date em
2006-12-08 20:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋