every single guy i meet only wants to get into my pants, even if i tell them upfront look if u want me to sleep with u i'm not that kinna girl, i'm a relationship person, they reply "no baby, me too, i just wna tto get to know you"...why do they waste my time? i dont understand this! my friend is seeing this guy, is showing him love and everything but he treats her like crap and the other day she found out she got gonheria! he admited to cheating but stated that she's the one who gave it to him which is so not true...why are you people like that??? i dont understand...why is it so hard to date these days...******* assholes men!
2006-12-08 12:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I love it when people answer but have no way to message them...cowards
2006-12-08 12:23:26 · update #1
I do know that everyone's different but those similarities are very common
2006-12-08 12:25:14 · update #2
Speaking as a man, please understand that not all men are ***holes.There are some of us out here in the world that DO want a real relationship.I know it is very difficult to tell us apart.My suggestion would be this, tell them that if they will take 1 year to get to know the real you, then you might think about it. If they want a real relationship, they will take the 1 year limit.If not,tell them good-bye.I hope this is of some help to you and your friend.Remember everyone is different,and to not judge a book by it's cover.larsonc06
2006-12-08 12:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Carl L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shlane, one thing that i would expect from an intelligent lady like yourself, is to dump a guy if the first thing they say after your little "heart-to-heart" converasion was "no BABY". that right there shows you that they do not respect you as a person. a correct answer would be some thing along the lines of "i had no intention of doing that to you shlane, i actaully care about you." you got to find those kind of guys that aren't a bunch of jerks who just want sex. maybe you should try to judge the guy on his appearance, an example would be if he was clean shaven and dressed nice. and also you should try to pick a place where educated men are, not some where like the movies with all his friends hanging around.
2006-12-08 12:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by fezzypezzy48 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but if you believe that men are interested in women because they need a buddy, then you need to revisit the book with the facts of life. And of course men will say anything it takes to stick around you, as they simply try to fulfill your terms- to the best of their ability. If you don't like men the way they are, I suppose you'll have to leave them for good.
2006-12-08 12:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tahini Classic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't judge all guys by the bad experiences with a few .
2006-12-08 12:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you are really hung up on yourself i doubt you will ever get into a relationship.
2006-12-08 12:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by robert s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋