It seems that they need a 'relationship', or 'committment', or 'respect' or some other emotional label. Guys don't need any of that, they can just relish the enjoyable, shared experience.
2006-12-08 12:03:44 · 33 answers · asked by Davy Crockett 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have met both men and women who just like sex because it feels good. I have met just as many who are tired of that and want to find someone they can truly love. We are all just human.
2006-12-08 12:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can and do enjoy sex for the same simple pleasures men do but most women become emotionally attached once they engage in sex with a man. Think about it, if some man put something inside of you( assuming you are male) you would definitely have some kind of feeling for that man. LOL but for real women for centuries have been taught to act and feel a certain way about sex and all those years of conditioning are finally giving way much to societies dismay. How many abortions were preformed in the US alone this year? How many people contracted HIV in the US this year or some other potentially deadly STD? I say, women keep your drawers up and your legs closed unless you know fo sho that the man you are with is about what you need and/or want him to be about. Then again if you are a new age woman...let it do what it do but stay off my block cause if you mess with my man Ima have to cut ya.
2006-12-08 12:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by datingyoungincali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been to sex clubs, fetish fairs, and have tried group sex. I have had sex with quite a few people. I have reached the conclusion that although casual sex is a lot of fun the best sex is with one person at a time and with someone who means more to you than just a hole to stick it in.
Maybe it's different for you and you prefer to have it as meaningless as possible, maybe you secretly enjoy it more if you know the other person has not come at all. Who knows? Everyone is different in this way - believe me I know some DIFFERENT people in this regard.
But to me personally as a veteran pervert and world class deviant the best fetish I have found is "making love" - it's sooo much better than just screwing.
Anyway have a great Christmas, and remember: think safe and be protected!
2006-12-08 12:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An odd question, outlining an odd opinion. I'm happy to know at least two women who enjoy sex as sex, without any committment.
Maybe those other women are sleeping with guys who fail for whatever reason, to provide them with the real pleasure of sex
( You know... Those guy's who think the clitoris is a french automobile, and oral sex means talking to her after she blew him), so maybe those poor women look for all the emotional stuff to make up for the lack of any orgasmic pleasure ?
2006-12-09 06:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 04:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..i think you are mistaken.. most people of what ever persuasion, would like to have respect ,and after that i think that it really is down to individual "choice". some people do need a commitment others man or woman can enjoy it for what it is ,an intimate,deep,sensual time ,shared with a like minded person
2006-12-08 12:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women CAN and some even do. But sex between Married partners is the best plan for sooooooooooo many reasons.
Disease, unplanned pregnancies to name just two.
2006-12-08 12:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by I-o-d-tiger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, there are plenty of women that just want sex with no strings attached, just a few may not say it right off the bst, but others will. Try myspace and you will find plenty of what u want
2006-12-09 05:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Miaka D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are different psychologically.
That's something you will perhaps understand better when you are a bit older.
Anyway that's the way the world works, and you're not going to change it.
2006-12-08 12:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are more sensitive than men are. They want to be caressed they want to be held, they want to be kissed. As human beings were are social creatures but women are more social than men. They get attached to easily especially if the sex is good.
2006-12-08 12:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by MissSexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋