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I just met this guy because my friend was hanging out with him and so he introduced himself to me and all that. He is homosexual btw, and Im not. Atleast he came on that way... He commented on my hair and asked me if he could straighten it one day cause he thinks I'd look good with straight hair...I'd look like a surfer boy... Anyway the point is: What do I do? If he actually is coming on to me, how should I put him down in a nice way. Do I hint that Im straight?


Also to add on. I met his friends, who are big druggies (includign himself) and I dont really wanna hang around them cause Im all straight edge and all. What do I do bout that? Just hang out with my other friends?

2006-12-08 12:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

8 answers

1. Introduce him to your new girlfriend - lol, or hint that you want to ask this girl out. but don't let him think you're bi.

2. About the drugs - you should hang out with others cuz u don't want to go downtown with them when they get caught. Also if you are discovered with any illegal substance, it goes on your permanent record, and your "future" can and will be ruined

2006-12-08 12:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by *girl of a thousand races* 2 · 0 0

Well he seems like he is trying to be friendly, but I am sXe so I see where you are coming from. Hang around him a little bit, but not very often. If there are things going on between him and his "druggie" friends, then just leave. It's not a good enviorment to be in, and it could just make things worse for you.
Be nice to him when you can, but don't hint that you are straight, it might offend him.

2006-12-08 20:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by 5 · 0 0

Just hang with your other friends...don't take chances on getting in trouble with druggies...and as far as him being gay and you straight? Just bring up a hot girl that you noticed or something....hopefully he'll get the point.

2006-12-08 20:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

WOAH! I wouldn't want to be hanging around that crowd either. That's completely ....wrong & embarrasing....and I know how you feel about wanting to be nice about it, cuz i have a real big nice & generious streak about me so its hard to say no sometimes....

But just be nice about it, and say No...somehow.....but don't be sneaking around trying to avoid him because I've tried that before ;-) (it doesn't work)

2006-12-08 22:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kj 3 · 0 0

there is no law that says you have to hang out with someone. you have to accept his choices in life but you also don't have to be part of them. let him no you really aren't interested in hanging with him as you are two different type people

2006-12-08 20:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0 0

It's up to you if you want your hair done by him, but talk about a girlfriend a lot around him. He was probably being friendly

2006-12-08 20:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stay away find new friends that are not involved in drugs

2006-12-08 20:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by stanley f 3 · 0 0

Dont hang out w/ people you dont want to. You dont want to get into trouble. And maybe you could hint it out to him that you think some random girl is hott or seomthing idk.

2006-12-08 20:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by Karen Smith 3 · 0 0

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