2006-12-08 11:53:40 · 40 answers · asked by Indievoter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they live by a different belief system, they justify their misdeeds by saying they never liked that person anyway, or that the entire relationship was all bad. they don't have the same moral's, they are immature, and have no concience, they don't care if they hurt someone, they will only feel bad, if they are the ones getting cheated on or hurt. it is okay if they cheat, no big deal according to them, but if u did it to them, it would be world war three. some people don't ever put theirselves in the other's shoes, can't feel the pain of another, don't want to feel it, so they drink, do drugs, and distance themselves from that person they hurt. but i would bet if we could see what their lives are like today, years down the road, we would see that they do suffer remorse, that they do have regrets. cheaters can't see that they too are to blame for what they did, they project all the blame onto the other person so they won't have to see the truth, so they can avoid taking any blame.
2006-12-08 12:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do cheaters really live or do they just exist from one fling to the next? In my never to be humble opinion cheating is not living because cheaters miss out on one of life's most precious treasures, real love.
2006-12-08 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by datingyoungincali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They somehow justify to themselves what they are doing. Some may think that their spouse/significant other doesn't pay them enough attention while others may think that being with someone else makes them stronger. Whatever the reason, it's amazing how justified they can make themselves feel. It's not that they don't feel guilty, but they've made themselves feel justified.
2006-12-08 14:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jen RN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy cause we only take it day by day. Life is too short. & even if you are not the cheater, you might be the victim. Guys do it all the time. But women are much better liars.
2006-12-08 11:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysbettathanyou 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh, yeah, karma has a extensive kick interior the azz coming for her. Your chum is a loser, purely like her ex. with any luck, her husband will discover out related to the cheating and the medicine, and take her youngster faraway from her. which would be some divine justice, for confident. i could sell off the "chum" if I have been you.
2016-10-05 01:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live with myself quite easily. If you disrespect me I disrespect you. Plain and simple. When that happens you lose hands down. I walk. After I give you what you so wanted. No explanation needed now is there?
2006-12-08 12:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Denial and projection — everyone does this, much easier to blame other people (for example, the person they cheated on) instead of looking deep into the self and admitting this obvious lack of good judgement. The dishonesty extends to their own self perception.
2006-12-08 11:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ivan64 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the question is
How do you live with a cheater.
2006-12-08 12:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by nunofyobiznit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheaters dont care who they hurt as long as its not them and so they don't have to worry about themselvs because of the fact that they don't care about know one but them selves so don't worry about it
2006-12-08 11:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a very good question,provided the other person doesn't do the same for vengeance or seek revenge,then there shouldn't be any shame from either side,Eye for an eye,tooth for a tooth,make your own bed to lie in,and crap in your own nest if you wish!
2006-12-08 12:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋