2006-12-08 11:35:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its his kid I agree, but its your kid too. Don't forget the fact that it is also YOUR body. Just tell him how much this baby means to you. Tell him how you feel. I'm sure if you really explain how you feel he will understand. Don't get rid of the baby, if YOU dont want too. I wouldnt get rid of my baby if I were in your situation. Dont worry, everything will be alright. Good luck, and I'll keep you in my thoughts.
2006-12-08 11:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First prepare yourself for the reality that your boyfriend may not be in any condition to be a stable presence in you or your future child's life. Then, just tell him, "Boo, I want to have this baby. I am having this baby and I am prepared to have this baby with or without you." When you say it, mean it, and do it! Don't have that man creating stress in your life. You have two people to worry about now and if he doesn't respect you enough to help you with this decision then you tell him this, "Boo, you gotta step. I'll holla at you on the other side!" Stay blessed, girl...
2006-12-08 11:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by zphiv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just flat out tell him that you won't do it. Tell him if he wants to be a daddy and be a part of his childs life then great. If he doesn't, then tell him to hit the road. Get him to give up his rights to the child the minute it's born if he doesn't want anything to do with it. I think it's pathetic that some men are like this. When are people going to learn that if they don't want children to keep their pants on!?!?!?!? *sigh*
2006-12-08 11:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do not want to get an abortion sit down with him one day and tell him why.
2006-12-08 12:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sarai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare get an abortion just because he wants you to. Clearly, you want to carry this pregnancy to the bitter end, and you will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't do what you feel is right. Please don't let him bully you into something your against. Tell him like it is. That''s all there is to it.
Good luck and congrats
2006-12-08 11:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's Ma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say I am keeping the baby with or with out you. Good for you!! I am proud that there are some women in the world who don't need a man to have a baby! Best of luck to you and your baby! God Bless!!
2006-12-08 11:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by cliffhanger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's your body a child is a gife why dont he want a baby kids are the best my wife just hade my baby girl 2 days ago.
2006-12-08 12:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by lori7642 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't force you to do anything like that, but you also can't force him to be a dad to the child either, but you can force him to pay child support....it take two to have a baby and thank you so much for not using abortion as a form of birth control it is just murder....good luck!
2006-12-08 11:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by - 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Does he want you to get one? well i would say:
"(his name),you were the one who got me pregnant. But, i agreed and i want to keep this child. i think it deserves a chance and if it is too hard than adoption is an option. we both had a chance at life and everything should."
Hope that helps or at least starts
~~me~~
2006-12-08 11:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kise 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell him straight out and don't beat around the bush! "I want this child and if you do not want to help that is fine, you won't be part of our lives!" Plenty of women raise children on their own, me being one of them. You can get help from some community agencies, if you think you may not want the baby please consider adoption, ALOT of couples want babies!
2006-12-08 11:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLou 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋