me and my wife have been trying for about 6 months we have done the heat chart, the ovulation test, having sex every other day for that 2 week period when you could be fertile just make sure we weren't messing dates up pretty much everything but fertility drugs we have both been checked and everything is fine, she is 30 and i am 25 she doesn't want to try after she is 33 and we have only been trying for 6 months and i think we should wait a year before we think about drugs and every month she gets disappointed and crys is there any advice other than drugs on what we can do? and how can i make her feel better every month because it breaks my heart and she is the love of my life and i don't want to see her like this
2006-12-08 11:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by Randy L 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Go on a holiday and relax. The stress of trying to get pregnant could be the cause of not getting pregnant. Try to slow things down in your life and enjoy life. She isn't going to get pregnant when it's scheduled; life doesn't usually work that way. Once you start to enjoy life and sex again without the pressure of wanting a child then start looking at the alternatives. Whether it's fertility drug, fertilization or even adoption, looking at the other choices sometimes creates a very fertile environment.
Other than that all you can do is offer her unconditional love and let her know whatever happens you'll be there and there's nothing to regret or be disappointed over.
Good luck and I hope you find yourself blessed soon.
2006-12-08 11:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This book is a must read for any woman trying to get pregnant. I was devastated and so was my husband after being told by my fertility specialist at age 38 that I had no option but to consider adoption or donor eggs (according to my doctor I was out of eggs and gave me 4% chance of getting pregnant and a 2% chance of carrying a baby to full term). After much research and dozens of hours reading infertility related articles and posts online, I have found this book! I never believed in anything alternative to western medicine and thought all the other stuff like Chinese medicine was a hoax. But I was soon glad to be wrong as I followed step by step guidelines. After one month of trying I became pregnant and had a beautiful healthy boy. Nine months after that I did everything in the book again and after 2 months of trying I got pregnant again and gave birth to another perfect little boy. I would recommend anyone with an open mind to read this book. It just might be the answer to your prayers.
2016-05-22 21:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound weird but its true. Egg whites. Lube with egg whites they help the sperm to be mobile and affect the vaginal Ph to increase the chance of fertilization. Also have her put her legs up on your shoulders and "deposit" right on her cervix. She will then need to keep her legs up in the air for about 20 minutes or more if she can. The longer she can stay in bed the better. If that doesn't work in another 6 months than you will need to see a fertility specialist.
2006-12-08 12:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, take a break. STOP trying for a month or two. You two sound like you're working very hard to make this happen, and you're probably stressing yourselves into NOT becoming pregnant!
Secondly, not to sound too graphic, but you have a better chance if you do this from behind because you penetrate deeper. Don't wear tight underwear (guys) because sperm produces better if your uh...sperm producers are cooler.
Tell her to take in folic acid. Orange juice has it, and over the counter pregnancy vitamins.
Good luck!
2006-12-08 11:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying. But most important RELAX. When you do get pregnant being so worked up will cause problems that no-one who is in your boat wants. Maybe check with your doctor if something in your diet may be causing an issue. Let your wife know that if she wants a child that bad, when she gets her wish she will make an excellent mother. Good luck, and RELAX
2006-12-08 11:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cannuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is really not that long. Why would she want to stop at 33, doctors don't even start warning you about birth defects until 35? Just relax and enjoy each other, it won't happen when you are both stressed out.
2006-12-08 11:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it for a while and focus on something else, like a puppy. Once you both relax, it will happen. I had a friend who tried for years to get pregnant. Once she relaxed and began to be interested in horses, she became pregnant and had 2 sons. Good luck!
2006-12-08 11:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little young to be answering this question but it sounds to me like your trying to hard. Just relax and enjoy making love. Plus I don't want you mad or anything but you could always adopt....
2006-12-08 11:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fantasy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ain't McDonald's your at my friend...your order may take more than 5 minutes. Meanwhile...enjoy yourself. Put all that other junk away. I have 1 boy and twin girls....and never had an instruction guide to help me....Do it till your dizzy. LOL
2006-12-08 11:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in think you should just keep on tring. i hope that you guys will have a baby soon. try having sex for a long time and see what happens.
2006-12-08 11:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Kayt♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋