i hate my best friends other friend?

Question

i have been friends with my bff for 9 years, and i know nothing can break our friendship. but she went to another school for 3 years and became close with this other girl, which is cool, b/c i have alot of rele close friends too. but thie thing is, her other friend keeps telling her that im such a ***** and a slut and all these things and basically trying to break up our friendship, i don't want to comfront by bff's friend because im afraid that my bff will get mad, what to do?

Answer 1

At least you are aware of what is being said. I lost a best friend because another girl buddied up to her and told her I was spreading lies about her. THAT was a lie. I never said anything bad about her because I loved her like a sister!

Well, we were in 9th grade when after a band concert I went up to talk to her. She said she hated me and never wanted to see my ugly face again. I was shocked!!!

It is important that you talk to your friend about this other girl's influence. You need her to tell you if she feels bad things about you or if she is still your best friend. Whatever happens, at least you'll know.

Best Wishes,

Sue

Answer 2

Don't worry about your bff's other friend. Don't tell your bff that you don't like her friend, but don't pretend to like her a lot either. If your bff is really your bff, she'll ignore all the bad things her friend says about you. She knows you better than that!

Answer 3

Explain to your BFF how u feel about her other friend calling u names. And tell her before she even thinks you're jealous of her other friend that you're not and u just can't take the verbal abuse of her other friend and if she can't respect u then she shouldn't hang out with her or tell her to stop what she's doing. GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

Do not disrespect your best friends judgment. If anyone disrespects any friend of mine they disrespect me. I will no longer associate with them.