I am pregnant, but i dont feel pregnant? Is there any chance the baby has died and i dont know?

Question

My first doctor appt is Dec 19th, my last period was oct 8th. yes i took a home pregnancy test and it was positive. my breast were sore, but are not anymore. and i havent had any vaginal bleeding or cramps, but you know how some people get crazy symtpons while pregnant.......I havent. and i was starting to wonder..

Answer 1

Hello Nicole, and congratulations on your pregnancy.

I'm sure everything will be fine. Different women have different experiences during pregnancy. I think that maybe you are just really lucky in feeling so well.

When I was pregnant with my eldest son 20 years ago I had the most horrible time, my breasts were sore, I was constantly sick and except for my insatiable cravings for mandarin oranges and ice-cream I could eat nothing. I had this metallic taste in my mouth, I was tired, irritable and I just felt absolutley horrible all the time FOR THE WHOLE NINE MONTHS! Even the labour and delivery was bad.

It took me 6 years to pluck up the courage after that experience to have another child but with my second I was just like you. I did a test and it was positive but if it wasn't for the proof of the pregnancy test I swear, I would never have known I was pregnant. I had no symptoms- nothing at all, no sore breasts, no sickness, no cravings, no metallic taste, I was sweet tempered, full of energy and felt like I was on top of the world! I also sailed through the birth- my daughter was born so easily- within 3 hours and a few twinges she was born in jusy three pushes! I did it naturally, without drugs and was ready, bathed, hair done and make up applied perfectly, ready to go home with my husband and family just 6 hours later with my beautiful baby girl. No sweat!

With my third pregancy- another boy- the pregnancy was worse than my first, although the birth was easy. If he'd been my first born- he definitley would've been the last!

Maybe you're having a girl?!

If I were you Nicole, I would just enjoy being pregnant, lots of women have easy pregnancies-they are just very lucky.
So... enjoy being special and relax. It's all going to be absolutley fine I'm sure. At this early stage, you won't be feeling movement or anything, but if you really are worried, then of course you should ask to see the doctor a little earlier to put your mind at ease.

All the best, I hope it goes well for you.

Good luck!

Answer 2

If there was a problem...you would know it. Some days I don't feel pregnant. And you hear of people all the time who go through there whole pregnancy without any symptoms. So relax. Everybody is different.

If the baby was in trouble your body would let you know. It's a good thing that you are not cramping or bleeding. Maybe your body is just taking very well to the hormones. I would be thankful that I didn't have all the crazy pregnancy symptoms...and consider myself lucky.

God Bless :)

Answer 3

Unless you have severe cramping or bright red bleeding, I wouldn't worry about it right now. (I know that's an easy thing to say, and not such an easy thing to do.) There were times throughout my pregnancy with my youngest when I didn't feel pregnant at all... and some of those times were when I was 7 months along!!!

When I was having my miscarriage, however, I felt pregnant right up until I started the heavy bleeding.... and the baby had passed on three weeks earlier.

Probably every pregnant woman has times when she doesn't feel pregnant. When we're early in our pregnancies, that can be a very scary thing, I know, but it is fairly normal to experience symptoms that come and go.

Good luck and congratulations!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I am 37 and 10 weeks preg with my 3rd child. I have only felt slightly pregnant this whole time.
I spotted a lot for about 3 weeks and now have stopped and feel fantastic!
I'm scared that something might have happened to the baby, but we had an ultrasound the day before Thanksgiving and heard and saw the heartbeat. We go in again Monday - wish us luck.
The best thing you can do for you and your baby - is to rest, relax, let go of the stress, and take your vitamins.
I try not to think about it too much.
I haven't bought anything for the baby yet though, I'm afraid it'll be bad luck!
Heh.
My best to you!!!!

Answer 6

You're not too far along yet, then. Girl, I wouldn't complain if you're not getting any of the uncomfortable symptoms associated with pregnancy! Later in the pregnancy you'll get to see/hear the baby's heartbeat, see the baby in an ultrasound, and feel him or her moving! Right now you might not feel much, but just hang on a little longer! See your doctor if you are still concerned. S/he can ease your mind better than we can :)

Answer 7

I am having this same issue now. The only thing I can say is that I had the same feeling a couple of pregnancies ago and guess what?? That was also a couple of children ago. I think you will be fine and I think you should consider yourself lucky that you don't. BTW.. a friend of mine and I were just talking about this.. she has now been vomiting every time she eats for the past 3 days. Hope you didn't just jinks yourself. lol.. Congrats

Answer 8

My first pregnancy was like that i had no symtoms at all. It wasn't untill i felt my baby move for the first time that i said to my self yep this real and it is going to happen. If it is your first pregnancy then you will not know cause you have never had it before. Stop worrying i am shore everything is fine. Congrats and good luck

Answer 9

Sometimes when u are pregnant u cant feel it. Everyone is different, some people can feel that they are pregnant , while others wont know at all. So i wouldnt stress over it, bcuz u havent had any usual bleeding so everything should be fine.

Answer 10

CHIL! I never felt pregnant. I would have never known unless I didnt get my period. I was never sick. I never had mood swings. I peed often, but I do anyways. If it wasnt for my bulging belly seriously no one would have ever known I was pregnant. Please dont stess about it, everything will be fine. Good luck at your dc's apointment. You will hear the heart beet and want to cry!

P.s you will be scared your whole pregnancy I can assure you that. It will be so awesome everytime you go to the dc's and you hear that heart beat, you will count your blessings. Good luck to you!