wut should i do
2006-12-08 10:59:59 · 44 answers · asked by ~L3_L3~ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
get a full time job and raise them like a wonderful mom does
2006-12-08 11:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My question before answering is Are you keeping the baby?? cause if not you should seek adoption. I am a mother of two and broke up with my man while pregnant with my second child and i keep my kids and they are the best lil kids one can ask for. I don't need my ex but my kids do, and luckily their dad loves them enough to see them and is responsible that way. But no reason to think all is lost you are young! a young mom like me but i am lil older. You can still have a good life. whether you keep the babys or do adoption. Just be responsible either way. They are lil people who matter more than a guy.
2006-12-08 11:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it that every young girl that is pregnant babydaddy is in jail
is that the happening thing?
but its too late to think about that now
your first question is what did he do to get in jail and is he going to be a good father when ever he gets out if not then i guess you are on your own be a mother a good mother and let him do his time if you are not sure on whether to have this child that is all on your basis...... life will go on even his ...... just behind bars
2006-12-08 11:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, we all make mistakes and go on with our lifes. I would seriously get rid of the baby's daddy b/c he is no good to you or the baby. Do not give up on your dreams. There is many things out there for to get help. You should think about getting help from the state for awhile. There is also government housing out there for single parents that need it. You might want to look into it all. It is okay to get help. Do not worry about that. Sometimes we need to do what we gotta do in order to make our lifes better for our children. Good luck! :) Do not let anyone get to you.
2006-12-08 11:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your troubles.
Stay away from the jailbird.
Get an education and provide for your children. Be sure to get on birth control and make wise choices so that this doesn't happen again.
2006-12-08 11:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by JG1343 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to be responsible. There is no reason why you should be having a second kid after you messed up once already. How hard is it to understand the ramifications of sticking a penis in your vagina. Don't you know about birth control. I feel sorry for the kids.
Abortion or adoption if you want to at least give him a chance.
2006-12-08 11:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's not the daddy; he's a sperm donor. And your vagina was the receptacle. Congratulations!!!
THINK before you part your legs, please?
And don't worry about the "daddy"; he'll have all those degenerates in jail to keep him company. Some will even try to go the "Brokeback boogie" with him...
2006-12-11 06:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give the baby to me, cause i would love it and raise it in a happy, stable environment.
Wish you would have thought it out better before you got yourself in this situation, with a dead end baby daddy. And...only 18yrs. old-sad situation all the way around!!
Seriously, I'd be more than happy to take the baby..........
2006-12-08 11:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Desert Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are some of these people crazy?! Put your children up for adoption...get fixed?! Look, you've made a bad choice..BUT now you've got other people who DEPEND On you...so stop being with losers like the baby's daddy...and depend on yourself!!! Cause YOU are the only one who can take care of YOU and yours...some of these people need to think before they answer!
2006-12-08 11:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You really need to look inside your self and see if you can do this being a single mom is hard and it sounds like you are going to stay single with a man in jail....If you think that you can handle 2 children then good luck and if you don't think that you can cut it with 2 children then look in adoption
2006-12-08 11:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ta Loca♥ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
girl, you are just asking for embarassment. People are going to get on here and tell you how wrong you are and all their negative opinions (which is to be expected), but the best advice I can give you is that u just have to live with it. People go through this every single day. Get a job while you can and save your money. I hope you have a good support system.
2006-12-08 11:03:00 · answer #11 · answered by prudentzeta 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋