He has Cancer and he did it on purpose. We have one child together.
2006-12-08 10:49:40 · 32 answers · asked by jn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope you had house insurance, I wouldnt even stay with someone that even did that. Thats so wrong, you gotta put your child first, no one else.
2006-12-08 10:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of cancer? Has it spread to his brain? If so then he in all probability did not do it on purpose. Maybe he is afraid to allow you and his little girl to see him dy. A lot of people refuse to dy in a hospital bed or at home until their loved ones leave.No one wants to dy. Leave him? No. Love him and go that extra mile to show him you did and still do no matter what. Who knows that may be the very thing he needs to see. My heart goes out to all of you. And I know when you care for a dying loved one how hard it is. Are you well ? Am sure you take care of all. But you need to be extra attentive to yourself now. Get rested babe. There is respite care available. And hospice when needed.
2006-12-08 11:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really did on purpose, he'd be in jail, no? That is only a question you can answer. Maybe he needs therapy to deal with the cancer. I hope you and your child are ok. If you really thinks he did on purpose, have the talk with him and base your decisions on that. Noone can tell you what to do. Only you...
2006-12-08 10:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by amor1954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant see any good reson to purposely burn your own home down...illness or not. He is a danger to you and your child....what if you were in the house when he set the fire and could not get out? He needs to do some seroius soul searching and you need to keep yourself and your child away from his destructive behavior.
2006-12-08 11:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For what reason did he burn the house down? Insurance money? Depression over his illness? If you for any reason feel he would do anything to harm you or your child, you need to leave. It sounds like he needs to see a therapist to deal with some anger possibly caused by the cancer diagnosis.
2006-12-08 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Katie Rose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is having mental problems, probably because of the stress, or the biology of the cancer. He is now dangerous to you and your child. He needs help.... and you need to be safe. Yes, you should separate, and if you can get him to seek counseling and help for dealing with it, do so right away!
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-08 11:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even believe for a second that this happend and you consulted yahooers for advice??? You have a kid, get away from him for God'sake. Cancer or not. If i was dying for cancer I sure as hell couldn't do that to my mate and child. What a selfish ***. Get away from him and move on hun.
2006-12-08 10:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause he has cancer doesn't give him the reason to burn down the house he need some help because it might be you or someone else. he may even try to hurt his self. but but but you should get away from him and tell someone about him behavior!!!!
2006-12-08 10:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by sexychocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the reason for his burning down your house, it isn't safe to be around him. For the sake of your child's safety, move on.
2006-12-08 11:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he has cancer does not give him the right to burn the house down. My mother died of cancer and she did not do anything illegal.
2006-12-08 11:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋