I got in touch with a guy I had met a long time ago, by email. We had met while vacationing while we were young and had a summer crush on each other. That is the last we seen each other, but had talked a couple of times. When I contacted him, he remembered everything and we have been talking back and forth. He is married and sent a picture. Is it ok to continue emailing?
2006-12-08 10:47:05 · 23 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure. Every married lady should start talking to old boyfriends. An even better idea is for every girl to start meeting old boyfriends. It's certainly healthy for a marriage when one spouse starts dating. So, certainly email away.
2006-12-08 10:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not! That either is or could lead to emotional cheating, which can be/is worse than physical cheating. Think about why you're even asking this question in the first place... I don't think you needed an answer, you already had one before you even asked. You know it's wrong. Also, how would you feel if you were his wife and he was emailing an ex/ex-crush [in secret?]?
2006-12-08 11:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the emailing is to determine "the place are they now," then it would be ok. besides the shown fact that, in case you're attempting to strike up something romantic (remembering the stable ol' days of once you first met) i might discourage you from it when you consider that he's already married. each so often we in no way get the prospect to determine what got here approximately to human beings we knew some time past whilst. each so often, if those connections are reestablished, that's relaxing to determine the place they're in life. do no longer attempt something romantic, although, when you consider that he's already married.
2016-10-14 07:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if you ended up married and your husband had a crush on a girl a long time ago. Then they ended up emailing eachother. Ask yourself if you would like it if you ended up in the same situation. Chances are you wouldnt so dont do it to someone else.
2006-12-08 10:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO l don't think it is a good idea. Unless ofcourse you are both happily married. Then l guess you could all get together as couples and hang out together. If you are single and he is married l don't think it is wise to keep in touch.
2006-12-08 10:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is married and it is not fair to the wife. If she knows and is ok with it then maybe. Find someone else to email where you don't have to worry about affecting someones marriage.
2006-12-08 12:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN BE FRIENDS.
I have been married for 6 years and im still very good friends with 2 of my ex's. We all hang out together and have a great time.
Just because you once loved someone or had sex with them doesnt mean you cant be friends. look at parents who get remarried they have to learn to deal with their feelings and stay friends. But I would try to make his wife into a friend also, that way she wont feel like you are trying to take him away
2006-12-08 11:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey, come on, it IS possible to maintain a friendship with the opposite sex and keeping on the friendship level. Problems arise when the spouse/mates are not aware of it and "suddenly" find out the wrong way. Just keep in check that you don't want your feelings to grow in a sexual way. These are special friendships, that those who are secure in their relationships, cherish.
2006-12-08 10:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♀♥☼ alycat☼♥♀ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as there is an understanding between you two that you are just friends. It is harmless to email each other. Just don't take it to the next level.
2006-12-08 11:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think so but remember he IS married! This can only continue on a friendship level as Im sure you dont want to become a home wrecker!
2006-12-08 11:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lulu76 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋