i am very confused ... can you help?

Question

i have this feeling but i can't really describe it ... i like talking to him so much , i miss him when he ia absent , i trust him .... in brief ,with him i feel there is nothing better & i have never been that happy
am i in love ?!
i think it is a deep kind of human relations but not love
i am confused & i am really not able to express it
this may be a stubid question , but i am really confused

Answer 1

No one here can answer that. Only you can. You can describe all you want but no one out here will ever know what you are truely feeling. Love is a tricky thing. Just close your eyes and ask yourself if you are in love with him or not. Somewhere inside your head there should be a litte voice screaming "YES" or quietly saying "maybe". Trust your instincts and be true to yourself, not some random person on the other side of the world.

Answer 2

You obviously feel very fond of this person and need to sort our your priorities in the lover department. There is a difference between infatuation and really being the right mate. You can be a real good friend and truly love the person as a friend, and to take it further may ruin the relationship. And if it is to be that you and your friend become true lovers than it will be so without an enormous amount of thought or pondering. Clear your mind and just let things flow freely they will fall in place use your instincts.

Answer 3

It's not a stupid question. It's one that plagues most people several times in a lifetime.

In my experience, "in love", "infatuated" and "addicted" can sometimes mean the same thing. During this time the emotions overrule logical thought and that's probably where the confusion comes from: the conflict between head and heart. People spend all their lives trying to get the two to balance.

Unfortunately, no one can really tell you whether you're in love or not. You're just gonna have to find out the hard way.

Good luck :)

Answer 4

It could just be a feeling that you are experiencing and nothing more. It may signify nothing and then again it may mean something. It depends on your own definition. If you know it is not love then just call it friendship and nothing else. Don't try to make it more than it is. Some questions you might think about are, do I miss him when he is not around? Do I get that funny feeling deep in the pit of my stomach when I am around him? Does my heart beat faster when I am with him? Does it bother me when I see him with another woman?

Answer 5

I know what you mean.. because even though we have different situtations... I know.. I have a crush on this guy and we have been dating here and there.. I tell him about me BEST FRIEND Nolan.. I warned him before hand that I talk about him alot.. because he means alot to me

it's very odd that I feel so deeply for him but I know I love him but I don't love him as a friend because it's deeper but I don't love him as a brother because it's not that kind of connection. I think about him often.. I know I don't love him like that but I have know him since middle school and we are both now 22..

people say I should go out with him.. but I think time will tell what you really feel maybe you could give it a try you never know til you find out.. or maybe it's just that you really do care about him because he's a close friend.. and maybe he stands out from all your friend because he's there and he understands.. idk that's just what I think good luck!

Answer 6

Love is a verb, something you do, not a noun.

It sounds like you've met somebody you'd like to be in love with. Good.

But what about him?
Does he like you as much?
Is there any reason for this so far, or is it just a feeling that "this is the sort of male I could maybe be in love with"

Accent here is on the 'maybe'--you didn't even describe a social date--so go out together, with another couple. No big deal right? If possible, find out what he likes and what turns him off.
Let's see how you enjoy "doing something" with each other.

Good luck--but don't rush anything. Your priority is finding somebody to be with for a long time, not just somebody who "turns you on".

Answer 7

There's a very thin line between love and infatuation.True love is more than just feelings.It's a conscious decision to learn to appreciate another despite the flaws that you see.True love is patient,infatuation seeks for instant fleshly gratification with any logics being taken care of sometime later.be patient and you'll know which is which!!!!!!!

Answer 8

I hate confusion, what's to be confused for, its either yes or a no, its either like that or not, its either do that or don't. Sorry to sound harsh, but the only way to find out is to do it. Thinking it is different which leads to think about other things. My thought is if you want to know ask. Truth may hurt but then you know the truth.

Answer 9

I don't care what anyone says, the only stupid question is one you already know the answer to. Give it time. Most often if any certainty is achieved it comes after much time and thought. No one will ever truly know the answer besides you. Good luck;)

Answer 10

The "hormones of love" are playing around with your brain: Oxytocin, Vasopressin and friends! If it is the first time this happen to you, it is a very important time indeed because it could influence the rest of your love life.